My significant other hasn’t been to one appt. am I crazy for being bothered about it? I’m already depressed I’m having another baby. I didn’t even want anymore. I feel like I don’t have the support I need.
Yes his loss in not going to it
Yes I would be so mad like why he taking off then
Omg no way really now that is so messed up 😩
@bsr2016, @familyof3.andcounting, @natty947, @ladyblauvelt, @missjaimelee, @jenny955, @jennaa05, @tatsandcats, @lottydotty, @mszbarbiee, @kbbaybee16, just wanted to let all you lovely ladies know my child father called off work the day of my ultrasound when I find out what I’m having and isn’t going to my ultrasound. Smh.
@ladyblauvelt, he don’t feel like talking. We always talk when he wants to.
@nesssaunders wow he would rather sleep all day then find out the gender of his baby
My husband only went to the emergency ultrasound when we thought i was having a miscarriage. Other than that he had to work and couldn’t take off for my appointments
My boyfriend has went to my last two because my doctor is only there Tuesday & Thursday & my boyfriend works Tuesday’s - Saturdays
Antione went to every appointment for my first. But with my second we don't really have a baby sitter so he just stayed home with Z'aniyah.
My husband hasn’t been to any of mine this pregnancy. Not because he doesn’t want to but he’s worried about missing work. So he texts me through the entirety of every appointment.
My so went to every single app 1st and 2nd kid after that i would make them while he was at work lol its my time away from my kids too im evil😂
My husband went to most of them but once I hit the weeks were they just check your weight and heartrate for baby he didn't really go to them
It seems like some men don’t understand the importance of all of the appointments and everything else just stay strong for your baby and pray about it, especially your sanity
My OB was an hour away and my boyfriend only missed one appointment. I scheduled them for later in the day so he could work most the day and leave a couple hours early to make my appointments.
I tired but sometimes he works till 7pm and my ob closes at 430. I’ve tried everything.
My husband didnt go to any of mine until last week he was able to have off and be awake. It kinda hurts but just have to be understanding that he works alot
Yea that’s what sucks, ima be petty and go to my ultrasound Monday and I’m not telling him what I’m having lol 😂
@nesssaunders hahaha I didnt tell my husband at first either I tossed a mini fit just to be a douche hahah
@natty947, 😂😂 I’m hold out ima make him suffer since he doesn’t wanna go
Try talking to them about it. I have a friend going through something similar. You aren't crazy at all for being bothered. They should be there too!
@familyof3.andcounting, he never has off. He’s a truck driver. He’s the only one for his job.
@familyof3.andcounting, it’s ok ima just be goin to these appts an suckin it up 🙁
My husband missed my first 2 ultrasounds with this one but he’ll be there for the next one in 10 days. I’d be upset if he missed all of them.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Wow.seriously. f that dude I'd be so upset.