I apologise for my last post. It was done in anger. I have had a lot to deal with over the past few months that I’ve kept to myself. Stuff that has left me broken and crying myself to sleep. I pushed it aside to help someone else with their problems and I have been walked all over and made out to be a bad person and a liar. I’ve had everything thrown back in my face. When it’s too much, it’s too much.
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Hope you're okay x Don't let this person get you down x
Just seeing this now, hope you’re alright. People can’t see the wood for the trees sometimes. Sounds like someone has their own issues and taking it out on you. Try to ignore them you have more than enough to think about and family will get you through the shitty friends. Xx
@lisao9313, @vixster, @mamabearof3boys, @kerryy23, @melanie-spiritmedium, @farahamran, @erincharlieconor, @gem_1618, @jodie1809, if you lot hadn’t send those comments last night I probably would have gone to bed in tears.
Now I don’t claim to be some sort of mother Theresa but I am more that happy to help someone through what ever they are going through and there’s a lot of people who will vouch for me on that. By trying to help someone who won’t help themselves is near impossible. If they don’t like the advice, they will kick off. I’ve bent over backwards to help and then found myself being slagged off all over Facebook because the advice I gave wasn’t what they wanted to hear. I’ve been accused of dragging a child into an arguement, which I haven’t done. I’ve been told I’ve called someone a bad mother. Again I haven’t done that.
I didn’t deserve to be treated the way I have been when I haven’t done anything wrong.
By sounds of things they are just someone that as youve said, wants help but aren't willing to listen or take advice. They are ridiculous for taking it so far out of proportion to go spouting out on facebook about it rather then just saying thanks for the advice but no! Like a mature adult would do. For as long as i have seen/read your posts I've never seen you say a bad word about anyone, unless offering advice or its been a fake!
You deffinatly dont deserve to be treated like this, not at all. Wether or not it was constructive criticism or just bloody advice you were trying to help a given situation and have had it threw back in your face, not fair at all. Easier said then done, but try and ignore then there not worth your friendship or advice. Xx if you need to rant pm me x
The problem is the truth hurts.. And if your friends can't be honest with you then who can!
Don't let small minded people bring you down xx
Everyone who knows you know you don’t have a bad bone in your body, you’re a good person don’t let them burst your bubble, you have so much love surrounding you so block the negativity out and focus on the good x
I agree with everyone else hun ...you are always been a very good role model for me , I have never met you in real life but I always seen you through this app through your posts & comments as a very kind, honest & loving person 💕
You have 4 beautiful children & husband to love for !
Don’t let anyone feel you a weak woman because you are very brave lady & has come so far 🤗 xx
Thank you so much. Honestly all these lovely comments have made me feel so much better. It means so much x
@mrsbodell, no worries hun ...we are all here for each other in good & bad times 💕
Sometimes emotions will cause friction between you and the people you care most about and then you start doubting yourself and old unsettling feelings of anxiety start to creep back in and you’ll start looking for coping mechanisms. But there are people just waiting for your downfall as it’s the only time they feel like they’re better. So sometimes it’s actually better to have a little rant on here rather than on the likes of Facebook where everyone knows you. Sending healing xxx
@melanie-spiritmedium, it’s just everything at the moment. Life is so stressful right now and what this person has done has just topped it off.
@mrsbodell, try to take some time for yourself hun and just breathe. I know that’s easier said than done with 4 children, I don’t get a minute to myself with 3. But just 5 or 10 minutes a day to breathe and relax and focus on the things you want to. Arguments, sleepless nights, time management, money worries etc these are all things that come and go. You know what’s important to you so be kind to yourself, you got this momma x
@melanie-spiritmedium, you truly have a heart of gold x
I agree with above, a true friend is an honest friend.. Don't let anyone take your kindness for a weakness as you will always come out on top. Hugs 🤗😘xx
Well your an amazing mummy to your children and an inspiration to us all for atleast managing to pretend all is well!! I fall down at the first hurdle an struggle, dont let others take the mick out of your kindness and ignore whoever it is thats made you feel like this xx
Just wanted to say i hope your ok, we dont speak on here much but i always have a nosey on your kiddies and your beautiful youngest little george, and how amazing you seem to cope with all youve been through with the house and going into early labour etc. Xx
Thank you 😘 there’s a lot going on that I post on here and a lot going on behind the scenes that I have preferred to keep to myself.
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@lisao9313, @vixster, @mamabearof3boys, @kerryy23, @melanie-spiritmedium, @farahamran, @erincharlieconor, @gem_1618, @jodie1809, if you lot hadn’t send those comments last night I probably would have gone to bed in tears.
Now I don’t claim to be some sort of mother Theresa but I am more that happy to help someone through what ever they are going through and there’s a lot of people who will vouch for me on that. By trying to help someone who won’t help themselves is near impossible. If they don’t like the advice, they will kick off. I’ve bent over backwards to help and then found myself being slagged off all over Facebook because the advice I gave wasn’t what they wanted to hear. I’ve been accused of dragging a child into an arguement, which I haven’t done. I’ve been told I’ve called someone a bad mother. Again I haven’t done that.
I didn’t deserve to be treated the way I have been when I haven’t done anything wrong.