Recently ended my relationship with my unborn daughters father. I’ve been highly debating who’s last name she’s getting. My 1st born has my last name. Is it common to give the fathers last name even if your not with them an then your kids have different last names?
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Depends if he is going to be a active part of her life... if he is going to be part of her life then she should have his name but knowing him he will run so....
@monkeysmommax2, I did he’s pulling the “idk how to feel” card and telling ppl he doesn’t think she’s his..but wants to sign the birth certificate an have a DNA test done...I don’t think I’ve ever met a more ridiculous person
@kalishiaadelong94 ha well 1. I could of told u that's he is a fucking fruit loop lol 2. There is your answer. If he goes for if he signs the bc then he is legally reliable for her even if the DNA came back someone is he has concerns but wants to sign the paper that make since 🤦♀️
@monkeysmommax2, right he’s a special one..🤦♀️
Can I ask why you don’t just wanna give this baby your last name too?
Issues with her father wanting her to have his last name and his family wants her to have his last name, I tried to compromise with giving her both and it was a sore subject
@kalishiaadelong94, i mean they can WANT all they want but it doesn’t mean you have to listen. I would just tell them y’all ain’t together and you want the baby to have the same as her siblings so if they don’t like it tough shit. Ain’t their kid.
Why'd you give the first ones your last name? And why not give this one your last name? PERSONALLY, I'd prefer all my children to have the same last name. But that's just me.
My 1st one got my last name because her biological father has no role in her life and I intend to keep it that way he’s a terrible person. But I feel like this one should get mine as well for that reason so they both have the same last name
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