I come back to the house and it’s a MESS. I was doing a load of laundry, now the washer is disconnected and my wet…

I come back to the house and it’s a MESS. I was doing a load of laundry, now the washer is disconnected and my wet clothes are locked into the washer and are probably going to smell I ask about it and I’m told it was disconnected to unlock the washer?? Yeah okay. Yesterday I had a jar of coins I put in the front seat of my car which I have to share with my SIL and then when I go to use the car they’re thrown on the floor of the back seat scattered everywhere. I don’t think these things are coincidental at all. I hate being here. I literally did nothing to them.