Sorry mommies I just need to rant to someone... I just had a baby 3 weeks ago and feel like a complete failure. My house…

I'm sorry you can't feel support from him. do you have any women close to you? you may even reach out to your doctor and ask for a family therapist. I loved mine she was great!

just know it gets so much better with your little one. the first month is the hardest. and by 3 months you'll be feeling much better about the baby. if you have specific questions about baby, dont be afraid to ask here

I know the feeling!!! My husband has had to learn also and it is not easy blending cultures of a multicultural family. Really sit down and talk to him! He has to meet you in the middle!!! You've got to learn to control your emotions when you can but he has to learn to let you have your moments. It has taken 14 years of knowing one another and almost 5 years of marriage for mine to take his first step in this subject. But open honest communication really makes a difference!!!

Yay!!! Happy to hear!!! Things stsrt d getting easier for me around the 4 month mark with my second born. My first born was not a normal experience due to medical needs so I don't want to use her as an example, but these moments really are short and will be behind you in the blink of an eye. It just doesn't feel like it when you in the battle. You've got this!!!

@xryztalroze oh ok I hope your first born is doing great now and I look forward to things getting easier for sure. Thanks hun

@rayray1682 Yes ma'am! Thank you!!! It took some time but she is great now. We all have individual struggles and that's ok! It's not the struggle but what we do with it that determines how good we are as mom's. 😉

Thanks I truly hope he does

@rayray1682 he does he won't remember the mess or what you did wrong everyone makes mistakes as long as he no you love him the rest will fall into place feeling overwhelmed is a part of being a mom

I'm definitely trying but I think I underestimated just what an amazing yet taxing mommyhood can be. Like people tell you but until you are in it you cant imagine the emotional highs and lows

@rayray1682, it’s definitely overwhelming but you’re gonna be okay, I promise. The beginning is always the hardest especially because just how intimidating a newborn really can be. But it gets easier, you’ll slowly figure things out like good routines & getting more & more rest as the weeks go on. You may not get to sleep in uninterrupted for a little while, but there will come one day when you’ll sleep all night & things just fall into place. Just take things an hour at a time💜

Thank you so much I really hope so

@rayray1682 You're welcome! If I could give you a big hug I would, so I'm sending lots of love and hugs through with this message. Lean on God. He will get you through. Prayers for you to have the calm and comfort you need as you get through this very exhausting, but totally worth it moment. I miss my babies being tiny but I will admit I don't miss the weariness that came with it. Mine are 3 and 1. And yes, I had difficult days with my first born and it did get better! Hugs mama!!!

@xryztalroze thank you so much this is the exact support I needed I'm hugging you back sis. I do pray alot and it does make it better

My fiance works a crazy shift so by the time he comes back it's in the middle of the night so hes not around as much. I guess I'm just being hard on myself