Most of my female friends have disappeared and are too self involved at the moment. I definitely love this site and plan on being on here much more it has been really helpful

My fiance tries to be supportive but gets mad when I cry he is from a different culture and crying is a sign of weakness in his world so when I feel like this I feel really alone

You guys have made me feel so much better already I seriously woke up in such a better mood to day thank you thank you thank you

Yes sorry you think your doing bad but baby boy think your doing great you can do this

Oh mama, I’m so sorry you’re going through that. I have felt that way myself. But especially being you don’t have any support please try not to worry about the cleaning or laundry or non sense like that, you’ll have time to catch up when you recoup a bit. Your mind & body has gone through A LOT & you’ve got to allow yourself some time. I know it makes you feel like a failure, I’ve felt that way too. But you’re far from it! You’ve got this babe💪🏽 just allow yourself to rest when the baby rests & the rest will come together. Do what you can when you feel you can handle it & forget the rest till the next day or till after a nap or whenever you feel you’ll be up to it.

Thank you so much kambam

Every mom, if honest, has gone through this. It's a stage we all hate and it will come and go for the rest of your life because you love your baby and want what is best for them. It's ok. It does get better. You'll find your groove and things will smooth out with time. Chin up mama. And congratulations!

It’s hard girl. I remember crying the first month too. Just remember that you’re doing good. It’s scary to be a first time mom. I couldn’t sleep because I was scared something would happen to my baby. Don’t worry to much girl. You don’t have anyone who could help? Your mom, a friend or a family member? When your baby is sleeping try to relax. Sleep on the first nap and then clean when you have time. It’s like that at first. Don’t worry girl just know you’re trying your best and that’s all that matters. To this day I feel like I’m doing a bad job too but i try and that’s all that really matters You might fail but just know that for your baby you’re he’s everything. There ain’t no perfect mom out here

yes you'll feel that way until baby is a little older. but having no support can make it worse. reach out to anyone you can. don't underestimate what 1hr alone and a nice shower can do. or going to the cafe alone.
you need some time to just think and breathe.