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Мама сына (4 года)

What kind of sick person does this?

What kind of sick person does this?

My ex is making accusations about me that I hit my son with a belt.

I posted about my concern that his grandpa is using a belt or the threat of a belt around him. I never accused anyone, I simply wanted an explanation as to why he got hitting with a belt was a thing

The first thing my ex does is call his lawyer to protect his dad and claim I'M hitting him with a belt.

I don't even spank!

Can't he get into trouble for making false allegations? That is so awful

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lakota-winyan

dawn

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

@shecole, beating means beating. It doesn’t matter where you’re from. Beating has ONLY one definition, when it comes to discipline.

You may have meant it in a different context. But I doubt it. I think you were trying to be funny on a topic that isn’t funny.

shecole

Neenee Gee

Мама дочки (1 год)

Let me reiterate....i didn't mean BEAT your child like abuse....where I come from beating mean spanking...so please MOTHERS calm all the way down!

lafeamasbella

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Мама сына (4 года)

My son is also 4. So I can't assume without marks if there's abuse or not but I was upset he was repeating that like he was going to hit me and looking for a belt

lafeamasbella

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Мама сына (4 года)

@sabi.bishh I did contact her immediately.

I contacted her since last week to change drop off if I was violating anything and there's no custody order so I wasn't

My thing is I NEVER accused him of actually hitting him. I questioned it because he has other grandkids he's admitted to spanking them and my son is with me all the time unless with them. I have the message that shows I didn't accuse him. My ex contacted his lawyer and made a false allegation against me out of spite for approaching his father with concern.

lafeamasbella

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Мама сына (4 года)

OMG @shecole everything is wrong with it.

Regardless of anything, A BELT is child abuse under the law.

shecole

Neenee Gee

Мама дочки (1 год)

Oh we can't whoop our kids anymore...well I be damn. What do we do? Point our fingers and say stop?

sabi.bishh

Sabi

Well since the dad contacted his lawyer you need to do the same to protect yourself. And your child can also say who threatens/hits with a belt. But if there are no bruises or marks he must not be getting hit with one unless the dude does it light af, which is still wrong. Have you talked to your son? And don’t let the child go over there any more. Get emergency custody if you have too.

shecole

Neenee Gee

Мама дочки (1 год)

Ummmm....even if it was true....whats wrong with beating you r child?

shecole

Neenee Gee

Мама дочки (1 год)

@bodybycheetos don't come for me hun! Let me reiterate....i didn't mean BEAT your child like abuse....where I come from beating mean spanking...so please MOTHERS calm all the way down!

symantha_chandler

Samantha Groves

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (8 нед.)

you're from Washington. Beating a child means the same thing anywhere in the United States. Maybe learn how to speak properly and you won't get so much heat.

lakota-winyan

dawn

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

Just in case you don’t know the definition when it comes to discipline.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.