Completely heart broken tonight after being with my husband for 16 and a half years I find messages to another woman about how pretty she is an how much he likes her eyes...just 3 months after having our last baby an 2 months after i tied my tubes ...now he can go get a whole new family
He really should be ashamed because he will never find a woman again whose been only with him. So he’s stupid if he thinks someone else is gonna be better for him. I would definitely be having a real serious talk & if you think that trust can be repaired then it’s definitely worth trying to fix, but if you can’t trust again then it’s not gonna work out. But he has a lot of explaining to do as well as making up for what he’s done.
Talk to him mama..talk to him. I'm so sorry! I wish I could give you a big hug. No excuses for him, but compliments and conversations can be forgiven. Yes, you deserve more and this hurts,but it doesn't have to be the end. It could very well be the start of positive, healthy change your relationship needs to make it stronger, by reminding you both of your worth and what you need for a positive relationship. Open communication and a healthy relationship take both of you. I'm in no way saying this is ok, I'm just saying that talking about it with him is the first step and I pray whole heatedly you are both honest and open withbone another and can move forward together. You have a beautiful family. I pray you work this and regain trust and happiness for a bright future together!!!
Edit: please forgive the typos.
Omg mama. I’m so terribly sorry, that’s awful. You don’t deserve that AT ALL. He doesn’t deserve you ! He will regret it. They always do.
So sorry mama. I've been there before and it feels like the end of the world. Hang in there. You're stronger than you think you are. Stay strong for your babies.
Mama, I'm so sorry for the hurt this is causing you. I pray it is nothing more than him taking a compliment too far. Talk to him. Ask him for an honest explanation. And listen to what he has to tell you. If he tells the truth and is remorseful do what it takes (as long as he is willing to put in effort also) and fix this. Your family is worth fighting for and I pray this is nothing more than misunderstanding and can be fixed with a good heart to heart talk. Prayers sent your way!
I’m so sorry 😔 that has to be incredibly hard.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
@householdceo @mamaofmytribe @goodvibetribe.xo @mommy_to_4 @lakota-winyan @mamasaurus_17 @sherrynygirl @wellabean0413 @xryztalroze @whereswaldo thanks ladies i am completely devastated ive been with him since is was 15years old ive only been with him..i cant believe he would cross boundaries like this we have 4 babies but we raise 5 together why would he even take a chance at loosing his family we worked so hard to get...i dont know what will happen because i know i deserve better