Advice? I'm not really sure what to say and I'm trying not to be irritated. But I'm not sure how someone doesn't grasp that having a baby changes things and they require a lot of attention. I'm alone with her 95% of the time so when he is here for 2 days, i NEED to clean, do bills, get groceries, try to sleep so I stop hearing voices, etc. But he's a lot more emotional of a person than I am so I also get that he needs the touchiness
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@maidmomma, we have one but we'll be lucky to get 20 minutes tops out of it
I honestly wish my boyfriend would be like that and want time for just us and appreciate it but he's not like that.... I wouldn't avoid a good thing. Try to make a little time for him. When she takes her naps use that time.
She really doesn't nap unless she's being held 😅 that's a whole other issue in itself
@lexi.and.auri well will she stay asleep if you gently put her down in a crib or bassinet, somewhere comfy for her?
@ladyblauvelt, no :/ as soon as we lay her down she wakes up
I tend to be turned off by it cuz he only ever wants to lay around the 2 days he is around and I just can't do nothing for 2 days
@lexi.and.auri, I understand but he’s got a lot of feelings and emotions going on as well and he may need just that little bit of attention. Maybe snuggle and watch a movie together
@supermomof4, but then that brings me back to the problem of my daughter definitely not being willing to lay down alone that long
Maybe when she needs to be held y’all can all lay in bed together and get that cuddling time in all at once.
When she wants held she will notttt lay down. She needs to be walked or bounced
@lexi.and.auri, 😩 aw man! My little one is like that too buttt sometimes she loves to just be laying down in bed with mommy so it’s a bit of a break. I’m sorry , she just loves cuddles and being held. I take many laps around the house daily because that’s what she wants haha
@lexi.and.auri have you talked to anyone about that? Genuinely concerned.
@northwoodsmomma, yeah I have a therapist and psych. It's not like schizophrenia voices. Just like I'll think she's crying when she isn't or something
@lexi.and.auri thank you for clarifying! I was seriously concerned for a minute!
This happened with me and my SO, I screwed up and let it keep going when I should of given them even amount of time instead of my 24/7 attention to my daughter because we’ve drifted apart now it feels like
Don't forget about him. It's hard in the beginning. I get it. Maybe have somebody come over and watch her for a little while. So you guys can have some time. Babies are hard on a relationship no matter how strong.
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Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
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You're lucky he's coming to you about this. Some men let it eat them up inside and dont say anything out of trying to show respect for you and the little one. And that's when bad things happen 😫 Does he want specifically cuddling? Because if he just wants time together, you can take a family walk with the baby strapped to your chest in those harness things and it will satisfy them both. Together time for him and the baby gets to be close to you too.