My insurance covers the genetic blood tests that tells you the gender as early as 10 weeks so I’m waiting the extra week for that. I’d look to see if yours covers it! Otherwise I’ve heard good things about sneak peek. Also all of the old wives tales were basically correct with my daughter!
There are old wives tales but there is a gender blood test you can pay for that is accurate. A lot of women on here have had great success and I hear people using it all the time. I believe the earliest you can take it is 9 weeks.