How to Rekindle Passionate Sex After Having a Baby?

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Can you still have kinky passionate hour long sex after a kid? We have had sex but it's like as soon as I get going hes getting done. I've said things about but it's like he dont seem to care. We had one good time about a week ago and it was about an hour long but I didn't cum. And I told him and his response was "why does it take so much for you to get off?" Hes never had an issue with it before but ever since the baby I get between 8seconds and 5 minutes and I just want to have my sexy life back. I was put on depo about a month after giving birth idk if that has anything to do with me taking a little long to get there, but I've always had issues with it because I can't really relax. Any advice will be helpful.

Miss My Sleep · Answer

I don't feel.comfortable having sex with baby in the room so maybe it's that. Also foreplay foreplay foreplay!

Cams · Answer

I wouldn’t feel comfortable having sex with my baby in the room. That’s just creepy to me. So it sounds like he just wants to get it over with quickly. Invest in a toy for the time being.

Kate · Answer

5 minutes?? There is no way I would be getting any pleasure whatsoever in that amount of time! Your man needs a wake up call! Get yourself a vibrator and try using that with/ without him.

Shauna Lindee · Answer

We've done foreplay, we didn't it before as well. But it dont matter what is done he just doesn't last and I just dont get there. I also can't get him to leave the bed. I've taken into consideration that maybe the baby being in the room might have something to do it and every time I ask him to take a shower with me he says no or when we plan on it he falls asleep. We live at his family's house so we dont have many choices.

Kate · Answer

I have the same issue. 
Live with family as well. 
The only time we actually were able to relax was in our tiny stand up shower. It really does matter when baby is around. Can’t explain why but it does. We can’t relax momma. So we gotta find space, time and situation to open up like we used to. You’ll get that moment in time. Promise.

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@shauna1998lindee We've had 3 kids and one on the way, our sex life is just as great as it was before, honestly maybe even a little bit better. I agree with @natty947 try some foreplay first.

natalie · Answer

Handcuffs and foreplay momma 🥴

Shauna Lindee · Answer

How do you mean slow down? That's kinda the issue hes stuck in the 8 seconds and it dont matter what I do

Rachel Mitchell · Answer

Yes our sex life is still good. Have you told him he needs to slow it down?

How to Rekindle Passionate Sex After Having a Baby?

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