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Sidika
Sidika
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So my husband told me years ago that he almost had sex with someone a year before we even met. I have tested positive…

So my husband told me years ago that he almost had sex with someone a year before we even met. I have tested positive for chlamydia after I had my second kid. I thought it was a false positive but now I burn and itch down there so bad. I asked my husband how close he got to having sex with her and he said he didn't go inside but his penis did touch her down there. I am now pretty sure I do have chlamydia after all. I have an appointment to get tested tomorrow. Should I have him go ahead and make an appointment to get checked just in case or wait until I get my results back? Like I said I'm about 90% sure it is an std. He is the only man I have ever had sex with or even came close to having sex with.

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joanaa

Joana

Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

and my baby daddy used to come straight home from work and his paycheck made sense too and he still found the time to cheat so that don't mean anything if they wanna cheat they will find a way

red_carr

Lauren🖤

Yea i agree with@tiredmom if it happened before yall met it would have came up sooner like during your first pregnancy not now...

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toya_malone

LATOYA MALONE

Мама двоих (3 года, 18 лет)

Okay good!!! I'm happy for both of you.

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@toya_malone both came back neg

toya_malone

LATOYA MALONE

Мама двоих (3 года, 18 лет)

So did both of y'all results come back negative or positive?

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@starliightt thanks :)

leslie.d

Leslie

@ssdj4, I am glad you were able to get treatment.

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@starliightt well everyone was accusing him of cheating when he didn't cheat. This was the first time I had been tested for stds and it can take YEARS to show up. But either way I got treatment for it and hopefully soon I get results back soon and know exactly what is going on.

leslie.d

Leslie

@ssdj4, I was "goshing" at the hostility.

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@starliightt what

leslie.d

Leslie

Gosh..

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@cori.severs I got tested today. He's being tested in the morning

cori.severs

Corinne Severs

Мама сына (1 год)

@ssdj4 Have you guys made a doctor appointment yet?

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@cori.severs I'm pretty sure it isn't. I've done treatments for yeast and it did nothing.

cori.severs

Corinne Severs

Мама сына (1 год)

Um maybe its yeast?

braindeadmama

Queen Bitch

Have you called and asked your doctor if you were tested? It is seriously concerning if you weren't during your pregnancies and you should consider filing a malpractice suit. Something might not have happened to your children due to negligence but it could happen to someone else's and that doctor needs to lose his license if he is not following proper protocol

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Ohhhh

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@tiredmom well my kids aren't blind so it's pointless

tiredmom

Julia Boles

Мама троих детей

@ssdj4 if you had 2 pregnancies where you were never tested for STDs you can sue them. Clamitia can cause you child to be blind, even if it's dorment. If that's how it really went down I would be raising hell with your obgyn

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@joanaa HE HASN'T FUCKING CHEATED ON ME. if you continue to accuse someone you have no fucking idea about, get the fuck off my post!

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@joanaa i have talked to my husband! They didn't test. The didn't do any kind of testing when I was pregnant. I went to a pretty shitty doctor but i saw a specialist more so I wasn't worried about it

joanaa

Joana

Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

and my baby daddy used to come straight home from work and his paycheck made sense too and he still found the time to cheat so that don't mean anything if they wanna cheat they will find a way

joanaa

Joana

Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

@ssdj4, I think you need to speak with your husband because from what I know they do test for all these stds when pregnant for baby's safety so this had to have happened recently.

kyenkenmom

Kelsey

Мама двоих (младенец)

@ssdj4, not trying to offend you but please read your post again and tell me if it adds up to you

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@kyenkenmom it can take YEARS to show symptoms.

kyenkenmom

Kelsey

Мама двоих (младенец)

@ssdj4, but you just now having symptoms...if it was before your marriage you would of been had symptoms plus you done had two kids with no symptoms or signs now all of sudden you do

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

He didn't fucking cheat. He's not an asshole and he knows better. He didn't lie about hours or where he was cause he would come home right after work and his paychecks were what they should have been. Not all men are cheaters. Quit accusing him of shit!

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@joanaa they didn't do std tests with my pregnancies.

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@beebaby a year before we met.

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@kyenkenmom @tiredmom that was the first time I had ever gotten tested so no it isn't sketchy.

kyenkenmom

Kelsey

Мама двоих (младенец)

@ssdj4, I would make him come as well, because honestly his story sounds sketchy..:.i agree with the other ladies the timeline don't add up

red_carr

Lauren🖤

Yea i agree with@tiredmom if it happened before yall met it would have came up sooner like during your first pregnancy not now...

tiredmom

Julia Boles

Мама троих детей

He had to have got it after the second kid for it to show up now. He couldn't have got it 3 or 4yrs ago and you just now getting it.

joanaa

Joana

Мама двоих (1 год, 7 лет), ждёт третьего

If this happened before he even met you why didn't it come up during your first pregnancy?

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Okay I'm lost. He touch a woman's vagina that isn't yours with his penis. Is that a good thing

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@bugs039 he has a different doctors office than me. He is making an appt now.

ssdj4

Sidika

Мама двоих (младенец)

@beebaby you make it sound like he did he something bad.

debdeb1

Deb

В ожидании первенца

He should be tested too

del_1520631630_beemommyof3

Deleted

He knows what he did and he should be tested

bugs039

Annie H

Мама двоих (младенец)

Have him go with you why wait ? 🌻

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