Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
FTM problems... So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It's making me sad. Like I wish I could quit my job and be home with her.
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
OgKelss·
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MassMomma16·
That is very strange. Absolutely not funny and very inappropriate. I don’t think I’d trust anyone that would have that kind of thought process.
Kesha··
Мама троих детей
I agree! And every time I’m around her these are the type of comments that are said behind my fiancé’s back when I’m alone with her. I told my fiancé that I don’t want her around my son with that kind of thought process.
Queen Meeks·
That’s extremely strange and alarming. I would have cut her off long ago, but I would definitely stop interacting with her after this.
Kesha··
Мама троих детей
Yeah that is my thoughts as well. I tried to keep the peace but at this point and with that comment but at who’s expense?
Queen Meeks··
exactly. It’s better to just be the bad guy and protect your energy and your child’s energy. No one has time for this foolishness.
Shantel McKnight·
What in the entire fuck?! Cut her off
Kesha··
Мама троих детей
Yeah she’s done!
boys.everywhere·
Мама троих детей
Was the baby crying? Maybe she meant it like "you would think he was being hurt from the way he was crying, instead of just having his diaper changed"? Not saying it's okay, just trying to understand what would bring her so say something so crazy.
Kesha··
Мама троих детей
If the baby was crying I could see what she meant or trying to say but nope the baby wasn’t crying at all. Either way tho the joke was out of line and inappropriate.
boys.everywhere··
Мама троих детей
yeah that's so weird!
Kesha··
Мама троих детей
it is and I feel bad cutting her off but at this point I think it’s best. She still doesn’t understand how it’s not okay.
Rikki🌙·
I would be fucking livid! She'd be cut out of our lives quickly.
Rikki🌙··
@omgitzkesha she's fucking crazy is she is really trying to play that off like it's supposed to be funny. She's fucked in the head for even making the comment to begin with.
Kesha··
Мама троих детей
right! I said to my fiancé who in their right mind would think a comment about killing babies would be funny. BUT one of our arguments when I was pregnant is that she has an issue with my skin color so she shouldn’t be around my half black son (my fiancé is white). So if that is the kind of dynamic we have why would you think that kind of “joke” would be okay. I’m trying to mend our relationship for the sake of this little boy and you make that kind of comment. Nope I’m done with her and my kids are not allowed around her.
Rikki🌙··
I don't blame you girl. She is completely in the wrong. She should never say that shit about any child let alone her grandchild!