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At my baby’s DR appointment today I asked what her opinion on putting him into day care after his 2 month shots were.…

At my baby’s DR appointment today I asked what her opinion on putting him into day care after his 2 month shots were. And she said that if I could she would try and wait till after flu season since he was a premie. She said of course it’s the real world and it takes both parents to work and said if I had to because of work and bills and such then it’s fine but would probably be better if it could either be after flu season or more when he’s like 6 months old.

So now my hubs and I will have to come up a plan of some sort to see if we can swing something till around May. I’m so stressed out.

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madhatter

Madi M.

Is there a way you could find a family member or maybe a nanny in the area so you can keep him home but still be able to work? Care.com is great. Just make sure they have a background check and do your research. I was connected with a lot of great families through there.

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fishinamanda

Amanda

I’ll look at the website! Thank you

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I’m really trying my hardest to help one of my friends but it’s so hard she doesn’t listen to my advice. She’s a stay at…

I’m really trying my hardest to help one of my friends but it’s so hard she doesn’t listen to my advice. She’s a stay at home mom and she has 3 kids under age 5. Her husband works full time 10-12 hour shifts 6 days a week and they depend solely on his income. She’s always telling me how bad they struggle and complaining about not having money and I send her part-time jobs she could get but she says childcare is the issue. I even found a daycare that would let her bring her two younger kids that she could work at and she said she could find a sitter for her older son who is 5. Does she listen? No I literally give her money every week and no I’m not obligated but I just feel like I have to help what can I do to tell her she needs to start working because it’s literally ridiculous I’m realizing I give her like $100 a week which isn’t a lot but once I add it up that’s $400 I could be using for myself or in my own savings