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Claudia M.
Claudia M.
Мама четверых детей

I need to vent alittle ok so i was raised Catholic i still have my believes i dont go to church thats the problem im…

I need to vent alittle ok so i was raised Catholic i still have my believes i dont go to church thats the problem im just not a church person but i do thank god every day for everything so now all of my husband side of family has turn Christian they tryed to see if I do but no sorry i just can't. I've been baptized i have a godmother and my godfather past away when i was 10. So anyway my MIL was talking to me and she wants to BAPTIZE MY KIDS TO CHRISTIANITY...idk if im ok with that and idk how to tell her cause i have no one close to me to be ok to baptize my kids and tell her sorry but they are Catholic so im stuck i know my kids need to get baptize their getting big but there's kids not are not and are ok so why are they pushing me i just need to talk to my husband i dont want no more white hairs lol its stressful

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vbythree

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Catholics are christians...

tinkcem85

Claudia M.

Мама четверых детей

not exactly Catholic have more believes then Christians

caffeinechaos

Casey Morales

Мама сына (2 года)

I'm raising my son the way we (me and my husband ) see fit. I view religion very differently than most people. First my son is not baptized because I feel that that ceremony or what have you is about a commitment and a child can not know the full extent of the responsibility that comes with committing yourself to God. So once Jr is old enough to think for himself and understands what is expected of him as a son of God he can choose his path. I also do not believe that God forbid something should happen to Jr he would go to hell just because he isn't baptized because a childs innocence should be enough to get him saved

tinkcem85

Claudia M.

Мама четверых детей

Yes so true

mhbb29

Melissa

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)

Children shouldnt be baptized to anything. They need to be old enough to make that choice for themselves. As a Christian she should know that. Its a choice to love and accept Christ.

tinkcem85

Claudia M.

Мама четверых детей

Yes it is

sherrynygirl

sherry S

I was raised Jewish.....and ALL Children belong to God so there isn't a need to baptize them..i am not religious just spiritual.You do what's best for your kids ! @tinkcem85

tinkcem85

Claudia M.

Мама четверых детей

Thank you I like that

bodybycheetos

BakingDaddy

Definitely discuss this with your husband first. You two are the parents and it should be decided between the two of you and your children. Since your kids are older, maybe include them and ask what they want.

tinkcem85

Claudia M.

Мама четверых детей

I'm just scared their going to choose my MIL cause we never have taken them to church if they go it was with his mom. not that I haven't want to go just that I want my husband to go as well and he dont

Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside…

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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3RD UPDATE: What would you do?

3RD UPDATE: What would you do? Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitters they have had. Well his sister just moved in and she had the little boy all morning. I get a text at 11 from the mom asking if I can come get the boy because the sister needs to leave to work on her car?.... I told her I would but was on my way to the store and would be back at 12 and would get him then. So I get back and the sister brings him over. He doesn't know me at all, but he is a very good little boy. I had no problems with him the whole time. So here is my question, I watched him from 12 to 530, the mom texted at 2 and asked how much I told her 10-15 just because I'm nice. If it was me in that situation on such short notice and someone saving my ass to watch my kid I would give them 15-20 if they said 10-15. So the dad picked him up and said the mom would pay when she got home. I just texted and asked her because she's been home since 6 (now it's 930) if she was bring over the money, I was super nice about it. She said her husband had to go to the bank, so he went and came back and then she texted me that it was on the front porch. They gave me $8. Like really? I just find this super weird. Would you be kinda thrown back by this also? I definitely learned my lesson and won't be "helping out" anymore. I just thought this was nuts.