I’ve posted about my defiant toddler many times before but I’m really at a loss now. She deliberately disobeys. Like,…

Here’s me in some scrubs. Better yet, in surgery. And I can vouch that monkeys wears scrubs several times a week.

Our daughters are the same age. Born the same day if I remember right. Jasey also says no. She’ll scream No to me sometimes. She runs and hides when I try to change her diaper. She kicks when I try to hold her still. She cries until I get her out of the grocery cart. She hits us when she’s mad. She’s almost 2. I promise you it’s normal for toddlers. I’ve raised 2 kids already and I’m on my third and she’s at the “terrible two” stage as well. You need to be consistent most of all. If you don’t want her saying no, let her know that every time she says it.

Jasey is a pretty good kid and easy to watch but is difficult at times to take her out somewhere. I’ve never seen a toddler not act that way. There is the rare instance a child will just sit still when you go somewhere. But... don’t stress yourself out. Stay consistent with her and she’ll learn. When you go out in public try YouTube on your phone. I don’t let my phone babysit my kid but it does wonders when you’re out and about and need enough time to finish what you need to do. There’s lots of kids shows on there. Jasey loves Cocomelon, baby shark, baby car, etc.

I believe it’s not working for you right now because this is her toddler phase and she’s learning what she’s allowed to do and not do. It takes time. And kids try your patience. That’s why consistency is important. Like mentioned above, read up on it and see what it says. I get emails about Jaseys age and what to expect. It helps!

@alexis.moore16. First. Unblock me you coward. Secondly show me proof of your house with YOUR name on it and show me car titles with YOUR name.. Not in yo mommas name.

Here’s me in some scrubs. Better yet, in surgery. And I can vouch that monkeys wears scrubs several times a week.

Y’all done lmao. I have a beautiful life, wonderful baby, boyfriend 2 cars a degree ANDDDDD a home to tend tooo.. yawn. Frankly, I’m tired of dealing with such trash lmao. Y’all are so upset that I’m better than you, in every way. Next time, ask me how I did it, instead of getting angry because you aren’t where I am in life. No matter what you all say, how many of you men comment and try to break me down, it won’t ever happen. I’m too strong of a woman.

I know a lot more about life than most people I know, and I’m proud of that. Pop your child, don’t pop your child I don’t care. It’s your life lmao. I’m happy regardless because I have a lot to live and simply be happy for. It must suck to be so miserable. Imbecile. Lmao. I didn’t receive a picture, you guys are still talking shit while I sit in my home, with my family.

Make sure it’s actually you lmao. I see your a bitmoji freak lmao child

Omg yasss right on it!

Why mail them?

Message them to me lmao

Oh so now your in the medical field now lmao upload the pics

@monkeysalwayswins, @cams, where do we mail the pics of us in our scrubs? 🤔

I bet you had to google most of the words in my paragraph 😂

Only 20, and I’ve clearly accomplished more than you, which is why you are in awe.

Do those and I’ll shut my mouth.

But you’re only 20 😂😂😂😂😂😂 okay we believe you.

Own 2 cars like me, get your own place like me..

Matter fact that goes to the both of you lmao

I tried ignoring you and your still trolling. Stfu dusty ass bitch and learn how to fucking read. You illiterate, grade school drop out. Go do something productive like give your kids the attention you are desperately giving me. Go knit, learn how to play 8 instruments like me, graduate college like me, have an obedient child like me, have a man with good paying job like me, work in a hospital like me, love yourself regardless of what some random bimbo on the internet thinks of you, like me! Wanted my attention so bad, surpass me. Then you’ll get it the way you want it.

I guess it’s a good thing I’m not a drinker. I bet you get drunk and pass out with ya kids running around snotty nose 😂 sis get ya money up, then worry about me and mine.

I might then I’ll cry, I might even feel depressed about it and cry myself to sleep, Dee. Lmao or I might, not give a shit like now. It’s pointless as hell to continue arguing with me. Misery loves company and you won’t be accompanied by me. 🧚🏾‍♀️

I can only assume like how you only assume, right? My child also doesn’t hit others lmao! So, as I’ve said I popped him, and now look where we stand today. AGAIN, to each their own! Bliss bliss bliss ! You seem like you need a good date or something honey. Go blow off some steam elsewhere. This is one argument you won’t win, simply because every child is different and reacts different. Needless to say, I just don’t care for you nor your opinion baby girl. Back to my prize child I go!! Let me know if you need a babysitter . :)

Dee, I can only imagine how your child runs around hitting you, and disobeying you as you whisper “no baby don’t hit mommy” while mine already knows to keep his hands to himself! Kick rocks lmao bad mommy’s attacking good mommy. Must be something in the air 🤪

Lol I’d love to babysit. You considered my comment rude, well that’s on you. 😂 get over yourself girl. Go play with ya babies or something. Mwah☺️@dee whatever. Not gonna argue with you lol.

She’s 2. Just wait it gets better. Insert evil laugh 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Our daughters are the same age. Born the same day if I remember right. Jasey also says no. She’ll scream No to me sometimes. She runs and hides when I try to change her diaper. She kicks when I try to hold her still. She cries until I get her out of the grocery cart. She hits us when she’s mad. She’s almost 2. I promise you it’s normal for toddlers. I’ve raised 2 kids already and I’m on my third and she’s at the “terrible two” stage as well. You need to be consistent most of all. If you don’t want her saying no, let her know that every time she says it.

Jasey is a pretty good kid and easy to watch but is difficult at times to take her out somewhere. I’ve never seen a toddler not act that way. There is the rare instance a child will just sit still when you go somewhere. But... don’t stress yourself out. Stay consistent with her and she’ll learn. When you go out in public try YouTube on your phone. I don’t let my phone babysit my kid but it does wonders when you’re out and about and need enough time to finish what you need to do. There’s lots of kids shows on there. Jasey loves Cocomelon, baby shark, baby car, etc.

I believe it’s not working for you right now because this is her toddler phase and she’s learning what she’s allowed to do and not do. It takes time. And kids try your patience. That’s why consistency is important. Like mentioned above, read up on it and see what it says. I get emails about Jaseys age and what to expect. It helps!

It’s not that I’m for hitting a toddler, because I’m not. But at some point when you run out of options, a little tap nothing hard enough to hurt the child but to remind them who’s in charge. My nephew is 4, I’ve never hit him although his mom has always told me too ! I used a different approach and it worked with him. He listens to me more than his mother. On the other hand, this 2 year old, I met when I was 14, was horrible tbh. He hit me, never listened, broke a lot of my things, couldn’t take him anywhere couldn’t tell him no. Basically like your child. So, one day, I popped his lil self and he slowly started listening. To each their own because every child is different.

If she isn’t even 2 yet then she most likely isn’t understanding why she is being punished for her actions. It’s takes work but a lot of redirecting can help. Also, kids feed off of our emotions so if you are getting stressed/ upset when she is being defiant she will most likely feel that and react that way. Sometimes it’s best to walk away for a few mins then come back and show her why she can’t do whatever she is doing.

Mine is the same. Runs plum wild. Nothing helps. She minds my husband but not me.

She’s still too young. Consistency and redirection 👌🏻

At this point, a little tap not to overboard should help out. The article might as well, it is YOUR child. I’m sorry this is happening! She does need to learn “no” So, don’t stop saying no.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/peaceful-parents-happy-kids/201601/12-tips-transition-peaceful-parenting

https://www.peacefulparent.com/the-peaceful-parenting-philosophy/

https://www.ahaparenting.com/parenting-tools/positive-discipline/use-positive-discipline

She's not even 2 yet. It isn't intentional malice. Read up on childhood development. Stop saying no, stop hitting your kid.