So I was venting to my sister about how my daughter threw gum under her bed and we took her phone away for 2 weeks and…
So I was venting to my sister about how my daughter threw gum under her bed and we took her phone away for 2 weeks and my sister said I shouldn't give my daughter anything for Christmas because of it. I didn't agree who agrees with her because I dont understand why she would propose such a very mean thing and be serious ? And I was thinking about giving my daughter to her incase of qm emergency never mind !!!! Also when I was homeless and asked her to take my daughter in for one night she said she cant handle it with a new baby but I was on the street like no joke on the street I went into a motel that day
Teresha Hollis ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Ya'll already took the phone... that's over kill ..
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yes !!!!
Page Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (7 нед.)
Personally I don't agree with your sister, she already had her phone taken away as her punishment. There shouldn't be a second punishment for her unless she did something again!
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I dont agree she is too much
Marilu·
Мама троих детей
Maybe I’m too lenient but I wouldn’t even have taken the phone for two weeks 😁 she just wouldn’t get anymore gum, PERIOD.
I don’t believe in taking Christmas away for any reason. And I don’t send my kids to their room without supper either. Everyone is different in discipline but taking away Christmas??? No!! 😕
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Exactly !!!! And also I always feed my kids food is not a form of punishment that's a nessesty I also said no more gum in the house as well.
Marilu··
Мама троих детей
you do you and let your sister do her thing. Christmas is the highlight of a child’s year! Nothing is worth losing that over! 😊
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
yes so true and my sister told her kids there is no Santa too I dont understand her that why we dont get along mostly
Amber Hollifield·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)
No matter what a child is in trouble for, I don't believe Christmas, birthday, or Easter should be taken from them. There is so many other disciplinary steps you can take. I grew up with those threats, and they honestly hurt. I agree with @mombie, it will emotionally and mentally mess up your child. Mombie I am so sorry you ever had to endure that ❤ but remember, it makes you who you are today. I bet you're an amazing mother to your children and do the best that you can for them.
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Мама двоих (младенец)
@verguinia, don’t take anything important away punishment can be other day or whatever my mom and her boyfriend were mean as hell they also made me stand in a corner once during my brother’s birthday party I couldn’t move at all and my nose had to be touching the wall at all time because again our room was a mess until this day I have major anxiety if my house clean to a T. I can’t handle it being messy
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mombie. That was too much kids dont understand like we do to them the world is different we cant punish them in ways that will hurt them for life if your room want clean as a kid......your a kid....what eo they expect really. During the party that was too much come on they where so rude hope your relationship with them got better as an adult :( if not I totally understand why. Sorry you went through this
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Мама двоих (младенец)
my mother eventually dumped him years later and I don’t talk to her moved out at 16🤷♀️
.·
Мама двоих (младенец)
No that is way to far my mothers boyfriend did that to me as a kid I was 8 and it messed me up emotionally and mentally all because I wouldn’t clean my room because it was all my sister stuff and she was a slob 🤦♀️
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I agree it's way to far seriously she is too much she rather asks me for money and tell me what to do with my life all the time. My daughter is 8 as well and it's her first Christmas with her baby sister I'm not doing that. I asked her If she would do that to her kids she said yes if there were 8 I was shocked at her answer . Like fuck you sis wtf!!!!!
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Мама двоих (младенец)
yes that’s really messed up taking her phone away is punishment enough you did the right thing and I pray for her child because they gonna be mentally messed up if that’s how she raises them.
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mombie. I hope not she is a good mom I dont understand in sure she doesn't have the all say in the house her boyfriend helps with the desitions towards the kids and I'm sure he tells her when she is being unreasonable
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I don’t think you did anything wrong, the punishment you gave her was good enough and she will learn from this. Your sister is being to harsh about this certain situation.
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yea my sister when we where kids used to treat me so bad growing up always mean to me and rude and disrespectful to me even now.So ofcourse she gonna want to treat my child like shit the way she treated me. That's why I dont really talk to her much and to think I of all these years I always gave her money of filled her fridge while I was a single mother.
LandLogLilLexLiv·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
That's ridiculous! Two weeks without her phone is sufficient punishment, imo.
Vee··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yes I did the right thing