Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Christy·
Мама подростка, беременна (27 нед.)
I read in What to Expect that guys sex drives get 'neutered' a bit when their partner is pregnant. Their testosterone lowers and so does their sex drive, they become protective and not so sex driven. Just know its not you! We didn't have sex for months at the start because of spotting and even now maybe once a week or two weeks. He is more worried about hurting me or the baby than sex, honestly I'm grateful because I'm too tired for sex 😑
Kaylee Thredgold··
В ожидании первенца
Early in a the pregnancy it was like once a week or once every two weeks to. But now its been 2 1/2 months.. But that does make alot of sense being more protective than sex driven. But even when I'm straightforward about it nope nothing...
Kaylee Thredgold·
В ожидании первенца
Girl im sorry 😢 it makes me feel a little better knowing that its common.. But still doesn't... I know my husband watches porn but I dont think he is getting it from someone else, just cause of how much he works. Have you said anything to him about it? Ughhh I just dont know what to do....
Heather ·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
Im literally in the same boat as you😭💔 its been since before Halloween since we had sex and that hes touched me in any sexual way. Ive cried soooo much too. I read up on it and i guess it can be fairly common. Which made it easier for me for a week or 2. But now that hes turned me down multiple times its making me think that its something more. And it hurts cause i know hes getting his pleasure one way or another. In trying not to think the worst but its hard. Hes on his phone alot more and wont even cuddle or hold me anymore