Ive been so down lately... I'm so excited for my girl to be here but with my sister making comments about how I look, my family on Thanksgiving making comments about my weight, and my husband never wants to touch (sexually) I feel like a gross pig... And im really tough on myself about. I know I shouldnt be. But I thing that gets me the most is my husband.. Cause we used to so at it all the time. I get it he doesn't want to hurt me cause ive had so much pressur down there that it hurts sometimes to sit down. Ive told him that its okay and talked to him about it cause he turned me down and I have break down. That was almost 2 weeks ago and he still hasnt even tried so I'm starting to think its not about him being scared to hurt me. Now I think he isnt attracted to me anymore... I'm so sick of crying...
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Early in a the pregnancy it was like once a week or once every two weeks to. But now its been 2 1/2 months.. But that does make alot of sense being more protective than sex driven. But even when I'm straightforward about it nope nothing...
Girl im sorry 😢 it makes me feel a little better knowing that its common.. But still doesn't... I know my husband watches porn but I dont think he is getting it from someone else, just cause of how much he works. Have you said anything to him about it? Ughhh I just dont know what to do....
Im literally in the same boat as you😭💔 its been since before Halloween since we had sex and that hes touched me in any sexual way. Ive cried soooo much too. I read up on it and i guess it can be fairly common. Which made it easier for me for a week or 2. But now that hes turned me down multiple times its making me think that its something more. And it hurts cause i know hes getting his pleasure one way or another. In trying not to think the worst but its hard. Hes on his phone alot more and wont even cuddle or hold me anymore
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
So over this feeling!
Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The...
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
I read in What to Expect that guys sex drives get 'neutered' a bit when their partner is pregnant. Their testosterone lowers and so does their sex drive, they become protective and not so sex driven. Just know its not you! We didn't have sex for months at the start because of spotting and even now maybe once a week or two weeks. He is more worried about hurting me or the baby than sex, honestly I'm grateful because I'm too tired for sex 😑