Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
but first this is the test I got excited about, I took it later yesterday morning at only 8dpo. Did I get excited for nothing? :( I didn't tell anyone other than preggie and hubby, I showed him the test and he was so happy it breaks my heart. Ik I still have a week before my period is even due so Ik If I was I'm very early but that negative this morning has me honestly crushed! what do you think by this test? what would you have thought? :( What would you be thinking now if you got a neg the next morning?
since my baby has been in the nicu for almost 3 months now.. I am needing some motivational comments to keep pumping I have so much milk stored but I know as he gets older he is going to eat alot more so it might not be enough or what if some of the milk is bad for him by the time he gets out... I pushed my pumping back to only pumping every 4 and got my milk supply way down...I don't have the motivation to start pumping every 3. I struggle with 4. and I never wake up in the middle of the night to pump...lol ugh I'm about done.
Any mommas having issues with their 3 year olds not sleeping ?? Took my kiddo to the doctor and his doctor recommended I get him Melatonin So I did I started with 1mg and it did nothing So I got him 3mg still nothing Got him 5mg nothing So today I bought him 10mg I hope it works This kid can go the whole night without sleeping and no naps throughout the day I’m one exhausted momma
LeighaJAM·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I just took antibiotics for mastitis and my supply seems to finally be regulating properly. I was way overproducing before and now I don't have to pump near as much. My son doesn't seem fussy though but I also don't want to pump so I don't pump unless I absolutely have too. Are you trying to build up a big stash? I would say to increase your fluid intake and add some more protein to your diet and it should go back up to where it was. You make as much as your body thinks you need, I would just recommend you feed baby until full before you pump and make sure you pump until you're completely empty. Did your mastitis clear up yet?
Paige Rue··
Мама двоих (младенец)
nope not even cluster feeding! And I use my haaka every feeding and I use to fill the sucker up and now I get onky drops so even my let down is down to nothing! I finally pumped 2oz total between both boobs tonight so hoping it’s coming back up and maybe slowed down to get this clogged clear? Read that it’s a thing! And yeah I waited too long and been like this for 4 days now hopefully tomorrow I feel better! With my first I had mastitis for ) weeks straight and they had to cut open a duct and drain the pus out it was so bad 😭 so I try to watch it as much as possible but I didn’t even see this one coming! I didn’t feel a clogged duct or anything then bam! Huge and I mean huge clogged duct and redness that was on fire!
LeighaJAM··
Мама двоих (младенец)
awe it hurts me just to read that 😓 you must have been in so much pain! it makes sense that it would try and slow things up until the blockage clears and you seem like you're really on top of it. I think your supply should come back as long as you don't give up. I read somewhere that pumping isn't near as effective as a baby when it comes to getting milk out so what your pump gets out doesn't mean that's all the milk you have in there which is always good to keep at the back of your mind while pumping. I've had that sinking feeling after pumping for a good while and only getting an ounce or two out as well 😔 Keep working at it, you're really strong and doing awesome 😀
Paige Rue··
Мама двоих (младенец)
awe thank you so much I appreciate that! And I heard that too and will throw him on after I pump but he gets too mad because he has to work a little harder for the milk😂