I have an interview in a few minutes for a general shop cashier job; although I wore a loose flowy top - it's pretty evident I'm pregnant. Should I mention it? Like work it into my reasoning or anything...
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (33 нед.)
I wouldn't. Made that mistake in an interview before I got my current job. This time I waited until I couldnt hide it anymore and it was fine.
Kitty Moore·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Hope you get it
MassMomma16·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I work in HR and I would advise not to. Wait until it is absolutely obvious, then you might want to mention it but be prepared because although they can’t fire you because you’re pregnant they could fire you “based on performance” No need to tell them and by law they can’t even ask!
CASE·
В ожидании первенца
Thank y'all - I didn't mention it. In no way did it feel necessary in the flow of the interview. Girl interviewing was a year or two younger than me and we were a great duo - find out in a few hours if I got it (I think I did)!
CASE··
В ожидании первенца
Update: got passed. Didn't get it 😞
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I definitely wouldnt. By law they cant ask about kids.. Ect. My old college professor always told us not to open the door and talk about kids bc even though they arent allowed to discriminate, they do and would likely pick someone without kids since they could just say you wasnt a right fit for the job. After you're hired and show your work ethic, its a different story ❤ fingers crossed you get it!
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
I wouldn't
Penelope ·
Мама сына-младенца
Nope, wouldn’t mention it. It’s not necessary.
Ausome Minions Mombie ·
Мама четверых детей
I would not either.
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I always avoided mentioning I was pregnant at interviews because although they technically aren’t allowed to take that into consideration, some people do.
MamaMei·
Мама двоих (2 года, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Yes I would , but that just means you will be that much more dedicated to being at work because you need the job .