What’s something about pregnancy or giving birth you wish someone told you? For me it’s when they push on your stomach…

Yes we really do no one really talks about the real deal of pregnancy and being a mom it’s so hard but worth it

Yes mines started to wear off when it was time to push

Yes for me that was the worst part and the fact they had to do it so often

Tell me about it!!! They tried pulling that with my sister especially when she had her first kid. They tend to try to do that to First Time Moms. Plus my sister was only 15 but I'm. I tell every single new mother who is about to have her baby don't you let them tell you what you can and cannot do with your baby in the hospital. They think that they can get away with that because you're new at it and they will use it. They kept trying to take my DD back to the nursery so that I could "rest" and I told them no I got to get used to it at some point anyway. The only time I let them take her is when they had to do her vitals and check her waiting on that. But I told them you bring her right back one time they didn't bring her back and I hobbled out into that hallway and started looking for my baby and what did I find when I found her the nurses feeding her a bottle of formula without my consent!!! Even though I eventually couldn't breastfeed I knew she was still getting something the days after she was born and that pissed me off!!

I bottle feed and a nurse was like that with me i told the dr she was a bitch lol i stood my ground

Oh he'll no, I'd cut a bitch!!! When my sister was having her second child she kicked the doctor across the room because my nephew came out upside down. Not breach but instead of facing down he was facing up and once his head came out the doctor just took a hold of his head and neck and spun him around while the rest of his body was still in my sister!!!

@sleepymommy that's awesome, I'm glad it was easy for you. It took me months to recover. I was in the hospital for 5 days. My incision tore open a little bit in both corners. I couldn't be on any good pain medication because I'm pretty much allergic to all the good stuff. It took me about 4 months to feel mostly better.

@momsrmagical i didn't have a choice my daughter was transported to a level 4 nicu 15 minutes after they cut her out I didn't hold her I didn't get to see her I didn't know anything about her other then she was a girl so for me it was either sit in bed and recover and wait to see the child I just had or suck it up and be a mom and handle what needed to be done.

@sleepymommy wow, you are an amazing beautiful and strong woman. I am glad that you and she are happy and healthy now.

Yes that for me was no joke especially because they had to do it every 15 minutes