So I had to have a c-section with my son, but I’m planning on having a VBAC with the next baby. Are there any moms who’ve had a successful VBAC? What did you do to prepare? How far apart are your kids? I’m just looking for some advice to help my future baby and me be as safe as possible.
The reason for my c-section was essentially because the doctor thought I was fully dilated, but I wasn’t. So when he had me start pushing, it made what was left of my cervix swell up. He then told me he felt it would be safer to go with surgery. There were a few other things I think led up to the conclusion I got, but that’s the simple version. I know chances of a successful VBAC are lower if your c-section was because of a problem in labor, so I thought I should prepare in every way I can before I get pregnant again.
My kids are 20 months apart. I had a successful VBAC. Stayed active...I even had GD. I also used evening primose oil capsules (inserted and orally). Also drank that tea ...forgot if it's called red raspberry leaf tea..? I gave birth at 41 weeks though. The reason I had a csection was because I was induced...my body was just not ready!
Following...freaking out about my VBAC
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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@sofie321, I don’t think my body was ready either. I was 41 weeks when they induced and I wasn’t showing any signs of labor. I was in labor that whole day, but it stopped for about 10 hours when I got an epidural. It started again the next day and I appeared ready. I definitely didn’t feel ready though. Everyone pushed for an induction and, eventually, the c-section, because they thought my baby would be really really big. He wasn’t haha. Just really long. I do know I want to wait to go into labor next time. And if I can, try not to have an epidural. I think both those things messed everything up.