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Paige Rue
Paige Rue
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

One thing I can’t stand is being touched! I hate it! My mom won’t even touch me or my belly without asking and and she…

One thing I can’t stand is being touched! I hate it! My mom won’t even touch me or my belly without asking and and she knows the answer is usually no...my MIL will not stop touching my belly! I’ve asked her so many times to stop and I finally got mean about it! Someone told me well she has all boys so she doesn’t get Tj experience this stuff with a daughter so just let her...so I’m suppose to make myself feel uncomfortable to someone who has no respect for me?? How about no!! Ugh sorry needed to vent lol

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nervousmommyca

ChristyМама сына (12 лет), беременна (16 нед.)

I hate it too, just because they are family doesn't mean they can touch you without permission. I got my MIL to stop with my first pregnancy by saying, I wouldn't ever let you guys touch my belly when I WASN'T pregnant and NOTHING has changed it is still MY STOMACH!

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justgotaname

Justgotaname Мама двоих (5 лет, 9 лет)

I slapped my MIL’s hand! I didn’t really mean to, it was just my snap reaction! Don’t touch me!! 😤

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

@amysbabies, I love it 😂😂😂😂😂

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amysbabies

Amy O.Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (32 нед.)

Carry a fly swatter. Oops sorry, I thought a pest landed on me! 😂 she will learn 😉

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

@marielovely, I don’t get it either? Maybe that’s what we need to do back! Start touching their belly to see how they like it!

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mommy.to.a.princess

#1MommyВ ожидании первенца

@paigerue2013, that’s good I jst don’t get why people can’t take no for an answer .. like would u like people touching u all the time ? Probably not so don’t do it to me

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

@marielovely, I seen a shirt that said $5 to touch $10 if they kick...told my husband I’m going to wear that if his mom doesn’t stop touching me and make her pay 😂 he said to for it lol he’s even told her multiple times to stop touching me that I don’t like it and she always says “that’s my grand baby though” and he always tells her and that’s her body knock it off! So I have my hubby in my side Atleast lol

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

@alyboo102293, right! My SO touches my belly and I don’t flinch or anything and I let him...I mean the baby got there from him so I don’t see a problem 😂 but anyone else I just can’t handle it lol

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kailynnpatrice

KailynnВ ожидании первенца

my little sister is always rubbing on my stomach and trying to feel where my son is and i’m just like omg please stop & she does it when we’re out in public 🤦🏻‍♀️ I can’t stand it

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mommy.to.a.princess

#1MommyВ ожидании первенца

@alyboo102293, yeah im only comfortable with my SO touching my belly and my baby brother bt other family it jst is weird idk why 😂

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mommy.to.a.princess

#1MommyВ ожидании первенца

@paigerue2013, oh I haven’t had anyone random or not family try to even touch my belly I would probably have to deck them in the face if they did cuz thts so rude and uncomfortable to jst touch someone’s belly without even asking ! Some woman may feel harassed wen tht happens and some may be okay with it but me , definitely not okay don’t touch me at all lol

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alyboo102293

Alyboo102293Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I get weirded out because my stomach is just too close to my private & that entire area isn’t for just anyone to touch💁🏼‍♀️ just my SO. Even when family try to touch me it just is too weird for me idk I don’t like it.

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verguinia

VeeМама двоих (младенец)

@paigerue2013 yes I totally understand I as a kid didn't like getting hugged or kissed too and my parents both knew it

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

@verguinia, right! Thank you for understanding!

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)

@marielovely, I am the exact same way and when it’s not family it seriously gives me anxiety! I shouldn’t have to constantly tell someone no and then get told the Tj should just allow someone too...my body so no

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121909pss

Porsche

I really don't like people doing that

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mommy.to.a.princess

#1MommyВ ожидании первенца

I hate being touched too .. like idk what it is but wen my mom or any family touches my belly I slowly jst move away I don’t wanna be rude and be like don’t touch me bkz it’s my mom and family and they have done a lot for me and my baby and she’s not even here yet .. idk what about it jst irks me but it just does ! So I understand where u coming from

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verguinia

VeeМама двоих (младенец)

No means,no what is wrong with people really

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