I swear this is about to be the longest 9 months of my life. I have had a miscarriage and a stillbirth and until anyone…
I swear this is about to be the longest 9 months of my life. I have had a miscarriage and a stillbirth and until anyone has physically gone through that amount of pain they’ll never fully understand my pain. Now that I’m pregnant with twins I feel like there’s so much pressure on me to be perfect and keep them alive, no matter what I do it’s not good enough, I am 4’11 and weighed 97lbs before I got pregnant and all I hear every single day is “eat more, drink more water, do this, do that, it’s annoying. Especially when guys can’t understand how hard it is to even want to eat when you’re sick all the time. I’m over it already.
J·
Sometimes during pregnancy we've got to be more direct with others who are "trying to give us helpful advice" and tell them honestly that they are stressing you out which isn't good for you or the babies. With my first I became a hermit. I hardly left our house and I didn't talk to alot of people because I needed to focus on me and my little man.