So today my partner tells me he bought a ring recently, an engagement ring... and it made him realise he doesn’t want to get married, and he doesn’t think he wants to be with me at all. So I’ve been broken up with, how’s everyone else’s Saturday going?
BennyyМама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@mrsmowmow, I don’t earn enough money, the bank would lend him more on his own than both of us put together. I’ve paid so much towards the house but he’s paid the mortgage. I pay the home insurance and council tax and all the utility bills, and I’ve decorated the kitchen and two of the bedrooms out of my pocket as well xx
BennyyМама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)
He said he doesn’t think he ever loved me, he thinks he was just going through the motions and doing what he thought/felt like he was supposed to do
Stacey В ожидании первенца
If he kicks you out and makes you and his child homeless he is a massive dick. Maybe he’s just got scared of commitment and change. Try not to stress hun everything will work out in the end, what will be will be xx
BennyyМама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@vixster, I’m sorry you had to go through that, it really does suck :( xx
BennyyМама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@vixster, he’s said he may change his mind later but he doesn’t know how he’ll feel then xx
BennyyМама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)
I’m not even on the mortgage. I’m screwed. And if it’s baby anxiety... I dunno how we can ever go back from this, he’s destroyed me xx
BennyyМама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)
@catherineoneill.con, that sucks! I gave up a really good (and cheap) private rent to buy this house. I’ve put so much work into it. This isn’t like him at all I just do t understand, he says I’ve done nothing wrong... he’s just not got a reason for any of this :( xx
Catherine O NeillМама дочки (4 года), беременна (22 нед.)
@benny2514 I'm with mine nearly 9 years he talked me into giving up my council house and moving bk to belfast with him one week after I handed keys back he started u were sleeping with ur neighbour u were sleeping with the fella u work with u were sleeping with this person that person ( I wasn't btw) so basically made me and our daughter homeless now we r back in my parents house with this baby due in December he signed himself in to a phystatric ward he's out now I had to get an order out to keep him away bloody wasters as much as I love him I know deep down I'm better off without him hope u get sorted xx
BennyyМама сына (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)
Tell me about it, nearly 3 years of my life wasted, and once again I’m going to be a single mum, only to two kids this time. He completely ruined my life, we bought a house a year ago and now I’m going to have to lose it. I’ve just decorated the nursery too. I honestly don’t know what to do :(
Kenza-Rose’s MummyВ ожидании первенца
wow what the hell?! I hope your okay chick,he clearly isn’t worth your time,that’s so so mind baffling😶
I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I find it very alarming when we see for MONTHS “My husband doesn’t want another child”...”He wants to wait”...”he won’t have sex with me”....and then you keep trying to conceive anyways and when you do get pregnant ask us all a cute way to announce it to him? This is entrapment....conceiving behind someone’s back then unveiling it as a gift seems so incredibly disturbing to me.. End rant.
So boyfriend just told me if I wanted to choose my engagement ring or if I wanted him to choose it for me and make it all romantic.. I chose to choose the ring my budget it $4k so exciting!!! What boyfriend allows that!! I chose my promise ring too!
Bennyy·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (31 нед.)
Well it looks like I can’t afford legal advice and I’m going to have to find somewhere else to live because I don’t seem to have any rights because the baby isn’t here yet and my son isn’t his child so he can just kick us out 😞
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