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Jeanetta
Jeanetta
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

TELL ME IF IM BEING PETTY !! So we didn’t have any food in the house yesterday mind you it’s my pregnant always hungry…

TELL ME IF IM BEING PETTY !! So we didn’t have any food in the house yesterday mind you it’s my pregnant always hungry ass ,my 9 yr old son and my 1yr old daughter in the house plus my SO . Now we was suppose to go grocery shopping early yesterday he wanted to wait until round dinner so we can get a ride because we don’t have a car . He left stayed out super late didn’t even come back until 11ish last night so I brought me and the kids subs and snacks for dinner . I was pissed ain’t say much . Now I’m thinking because he know we didn’t go last night he should say something about going this morning did he nope he slept in all morning . So around noon me and my son walked and pushed my 1yr old in the stroller to family dollars to get small groceries like cereals oatmeal’s pop tarts pudding fruit snacks some canned stuff like spaghetti and ravioli and cabinet foods . Now the problem with that is he saw us leaving didn’t ask if I needed his help knowing I’m not supposed to be carrying things back because I’m high risk and when I get tired I get dizzy and just start having bad Bh . I just put pizza on for the kids and still have so much more food to go out and get later and you would think because it’s almost 4 he would ask do I want to finish shopping he still hasn’t said anything . I feel like since he don’t care if we eat or not or don’t care about me having to walk and get groceries with the kids he shouldn’t touch a damn thing in the kitchen since he didn’t help put it in there !! Is that petty or no ??

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@itslinny, @yatyat, @al_lopezzzz2718, @blessedwithgirls, @joyfulmom2b, @shayybear, @queenmeeks, @lulu85_18, he didn’t eat shit that I brought and he called his mom to take us to finish putting food in the house . But I’m still mad and he’s sooo not getting any tonight because it was just no excuse for that amount of laziness and just foolery !!

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joyfulmom

JennyМама сына-младенца

@prestonjeanetta0120, agreed

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yatyat

YatМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@prestonjeanetta0120 I'm glad it worked out

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@itslinny, @yatyat, @al_lopezzzz2718, @blessedwithgirls, @joyfulmom2b, @shayybear, @queenmeeks, @lulu85_18, he didn’t eat shit that I brought and he called his mom to take us to finish putting food in the house . But I’m still mad and he’s sooo not getting any tonight because it was just no excuse for that amount of laziness and just foolery !!

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yatyat

YatМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Yall kno DAMN WELL that he ain't gonna listen to her sayin that since he didn help her the groceries or help buy them that he cant eat them 😒.... No I dont think that it's being petty, but I also don't think that its gonna work! But like one of the other ladies said some stores will deliver groceries to the house. Walmart has an app that they'll pick everything & bring it to the car for u @prestonjeanetta0120 u may have to just take an uber to pick it up &&& since his lazy ass dont wanna help I hope he ain't gettin no cooch either 😡

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al_hegerrrr2819

🇦 🇱 🇱 🇮 🇪 🇧 🇦 🇪 💋Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Make his butt starve and go get his own food or kick his lazy tail out!!

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joyfulmom

JennyМама сына-младенца

@prestonjeanetta0120, totally understandable

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (младенец)

@prestonjeanetta0120 also look into shipt

Eta: Amazon Now has groceries as well.

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@queenmeeks, okay thanks !!

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queenmeeks

Queen MeeksМама дочки (1 год)

@prestonjeanetta0120 damn damn damn. I’m sorry mama! Double check the app Instacart and see if it’s available in your area. They do grocery delivery!

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lulu85_18

LuluМама двоих (младенец)

Not petty. He needs to get his priorities straight!

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@queenmeeks, I don’t think so . I swear if I have to go out again with just me and the kids it’s going to be a PROBLEM when I get back !!!!

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libra2extra92

Tati LoveМама сына-младенца

Def not being petty, Smh. Yup id be hot fr. That was inconsiderate of him im my opinion and not right at all.

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queenmeeks

Queen MeeksМама дочки (1 год)

Can you get groceries delivered so you don’t have to go out again in this hot ass weather? I would be pissed!

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itslinny

LinnyМама сына (6 лет), беременна (28 нед.)

@prestonjeanetta0120, I'd tell him to go find food some where else! That's ridiculous he obviously only thinking of himself!

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@joyfulmom2b, I am once I cool down some !! I don’t like to argue in front of the kids .

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@bigmama18md, ima go out a lil later to finish getting food I’m not gone sit around and wait for him we’d all starve . I just don’t get how he don’t care that it wasn’t shit in there and was okay with me and the kids walking in the blazing son alone to get it knowing I’m high risk and could have needed his help for sure carrying stuff and pushing the stroller.

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joyfulmom

JennyМама сына-младенца

I would be also.. if actually give him hell for all that lol

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@itslinny, girl I am pissed like I don’t get it how are you okay with it not being food in the house for me to eat and the kids like how ?? You rather go hang out with friends before making sure home is token care of .. how ?? And then let me go out and get mad shit by myself with the kids and it’s fucking blazing out . I had to put mad shit on the stroller handles and my son had to carry mad bags as well we had to stop a dozen of times on the way back . Then he had the nerve to ask for some of the pizza I just put in the oven I just ignored him cause I’m too pissed to talk right now and I don’t like yelling in front of the kids .

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bigmama18

Yo mamaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

If he didn’t buy it or help get it then no he shouldn’t be eating it. Especially if it’s not a lot and you don’t know when you will be able to get more. The kids get that.

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itslinny

LinnyМама сына (6 лет), беременна (28 нед.)

I'd be pissed

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itslinny

LinnyМама сына (6 лет), беременна (28 нед.)

Not petty at all

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