What do you tell your son/ child, when they notice you don’t have a “wee wee”? My son keeps asking me “where mama wee…

I didn’t want to have to explain this but I guess I do. My moms family and husbands family were not born in the US like we are. As extremely open minded as I am, I won’t be telling an almost 3 year old I have a vagina and he has a penis so he can go to my relatives and tell them “mama has a vagina” — which he most certainly will, that won’t sit well with my relatives as they will look at me and think I’m teaching him horrid things at home bc in their home country no one, child or adult speaks about their private parts so openly. My MIL tries to correct my sons behavior when he kisses me on or near my mouth. Which to me I don’t care if my son kisses me on my mouth bc he’s a toddler. There’s nothing weird or sexual about it and she’s several times told me you need to stop this, it’s inappropriate and sinful 🙄. I didn’t but that’s the type of people I have family relations with. So could you imagine the field day they would have if my son uttered penis or vagina to his little cousins and their parents overheard? This isn’t a debate on using the correct term, I have my reasons, as do others. I hated my life being shielded a bunch of bs (info about periods and female anatomy, or even denied taking the sex Ed class) and I don’t plan on sheltering my kid where I have to make little stories up about where babies come from and what not. I simply just wanted to know what others did in my situation so I can take examples and apply it to my situation.

Also, women don’t pee out of their vaginas, my son is curious how I pee bc I don’t have a penis like him and “dadda”. If he asks me where babies come from, then i can tell him vagina..

Why would you want your child thinking his penis gives him super powers? That’s just a set up for something to happen in preK when he whips it out to show everyone his “powers” just use correct terminology. “Mom doesn’t have a penis because I’m a girl”

Penis and vagina aren't dirty words.

I would just tell him that you have a vagina because you're a girl and he has a penis because he's a boy.

Ditto @wafflespancakes.

My son asked that as well , where is moms wee wee and I tell him mom has a pee pee and boys have a wee wee . I told him it gives boys and girls different super powers .

I just tell him, “Mommy doesn’t have a penis because mommy is a girl.” He just says oh and moves on.

He’s old enough to comprehend boys have penises and girls don’t. Simple as that.