I have two friends who I have known for over a year now who was there before and during my pregnancy. I have known my baby's father for 10 years. At 7 weeks he left and I haven't heard from him. I think it depends on how people act before and after.
@deadlylove, that’s so rude of them, that’s why I’d rather stay far from “family”and “friends” from my part but I’m glad you have people around you who love you ❤️
@mumma_of2, EXACTLY!! Even with family like my mom and dad I feel bad saying that but I’d rather stay far from them as well. They are not the people I thought they were.
@ss3mom, thats amazing! I’m sure if I had a friend for that long I’d appreciate it lol but I don’t and honestly I just hate talking to people and acting a certain way it’s annoying ha
Pretty much anyone I ever really got close to except my boyfriend and family has just treated me like I was disposable. So I’ve learned to just not count on anyone except my boyfriend and my family. Plus I have an anxiety disorder and people just seem to not accept it. 🤷🏻♀️ eh people just tend to be shitty human beings but I still try to stay positive and help out if I can. 🤷🏻♀️
@mumma_of2, oh yea I’ve been screwed over by “friends” too. Those are the people I cut out of my life. I have just a handful of really good friends and I’m happy with that.
Oh see I’m the opposite. Maybe that’s because I have a select few very good friends. We’ve all been friends since before having kids and now our kids are growing up together. I love it. We just celebrated my best friends 40th bday yesterday and it was so much fun. She one of my oldest friends. We’ve been friends for almost 20 years now!!