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Savannah Rae
Savannah Rae
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (21 нед.)

So me and my son father have decided to fix things after a month of being separated . He has told me he was talking to a…

So me and my son father have decided to fix things after a month of being separated . He has told me he was talking to a girl he works with and they have hooked a few times . How do I get over that ?

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hotmessexpress

Just MeМама четверых детей

Imo if he was truly the one for you, he wouldn't have been able to just go sleep with someone else that quick. And it wasn't just one impulsive mistake, he chose to do it more than once. I know you weren't together at the time but if i'm in love with someone I could never sleep with someone else. Seems like he was just waiting to hook up with her. And now he's just going to keep seeing her at work?! That's too much for me. I personally don't think he's the one for you.

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a.mama22

AМама сына (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)

@savannahrae, Yeah that's rough. The fact that it's a coworker would really bother me too.

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britt.

BrittМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

If my husband and I were only separated for a month and he slept with someone else... Id take that as my sign to MOVE ON. BUT we've been together for over 10 years. So this is circumstantial to me... If you've only been together a short time, then I don't see it as that big of a deal. If you've been together a long time... And he moved on THAT FAST.... I'd be upset. It says something about his character, in my opinion. Aaaaaand then I'm also biased... If I'm only dating someone, if they're only my boyfriend, AND we have already separated, AND they've already slept with someone else in a months time.... I'm done. That'd be enough for me. Too much mess going on.

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savannahrae

Savannah RaeМама дочки (2 года), беременна (21 нед.)

@vicvellas0411, @aengs2, it was during separation so I don’t look at it as cheating . My struggle is that he works with her and it happened the first time the day after he left me so it makes me think it had been going on longer than what I know .

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a.mama22

AМама сына (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)

Did this occur during separation or while you were together? If it was during separation then I know it's hard to get over but if you want to make things work, you'll have to find a way to process it and move on.

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deadlylove

Sabrina Beloved

A couple can get passed it but it takes a lot of hard work on both your parts. He betrayed you and he’s never going to really know the hurt he put you through even when you try to explain. And you may not ever really trust him again. It’s something that just takes a lot of hard work and a lot of talking and a lot of time to heal from. If you two truly want to make it work you can though ❤️ love always finds a way.

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blessed2018w9

blessed2018w9Многодетная мама (8 детей), беременна

That's something I couldn't or wouldn't be able to forgive I'm just stubborn though..cause I'd worry he would do it again..you do what you feel is right for you and your family though

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected…

This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪

Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex…

Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????