So me and my son father have decided to fix things after a month of being separated . He has told me he was talking to a girl he works with and they have hooked a few times . How do I get over that ?
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@savannahrae, Yeah that's rough. The fact that it's a coworker would really bother me too.
If my husband and I were only separated for a month and he slept with someone else... Id take that as my sign to MOVE ON. BUT we've been together for over 10 years. So this is circumstantial to me... If you've only been together a short time, then I don't see it as that big of a deal. If you've been together a long time... And he moved on THAT FAST.... I'd be upset. It says something about his character, in my opinion. Aaaaaand then I'm also biased... If I'm only dating someone, if they're only my boyfriend, AND we have already separated, AND they've already slept with someone else in a months time.... I'm done. That'd be enough for me. Too much mess going on.
@vicvellas0411, @aengs2, it was during separation so I don’t look at it as cheating . My struggle is that he works with her and it happened the first time the day after he left me so it makes me think it had been going on longer than what I know .
Did this occur during separation or while you were together? If it was during separation then I know it's hard to get over but if you want to make things work, you'll have to find a way to process it and move on.
A couple can get passed it but it takes a lot of hard work on both your parts. He betrayed you and he’s never going to really know the hurt he put you through even when you try to explain. And you may not ever really trust him again. It’s something that just takes a lot of hard work and a lot of talking and a lot of time to heal from. If you two truly want to make it work you can though ❤️ love always finds a way.
Imo if he was truly the one for you, he wouldn't have been able to just go sleep with someone else that quick. And it wasn't just one impulsive mistake, he chose to do it more than once. I know you weren't together at the time but if i'm in love with someone I could never sleep with someone else. Seems like he was just waiting to hook up with her. And now he's just going to keep seeing her at work?! That's too much for me. I personally don't think he's the one for you.