Yesterday this little boy (my husbands best friend’s kid) met Lilly for the first time and he kept hugging and tickling…

Lmao.....this post though...they just kids lol

@liz41395, wow that’s so rude of you . Yes I haven’t been ther yet but I no how I would approach that situation.

I’m ok with a hit after her personal space has been invaded and warnings had been given. Yeah it starts with hugging and tickling. Then they’re teenagers and it becomes hugging and kissing. Then they’re adults and she is physically assaulted. That’s the world we live in. He needs to learn that women and even girls have personal boundaries and he crossed them and she needs to learn that she has a right to her body and if she feels uncomfortable she has the right to do something about it.

@alishap1212, okay tell me how perfect mom you are when you have a toddler that is constantly around other kids. I find it hard to take advice from someone that’s not even there yet.

@liz41395, this is just so wrong . If my daughter smacks some one I’m going to take her tell her she was wrong n than leave bc that behavior is u called for

@tota., his mom saw my kid hit him too and all she said was “see. Leave her alone.”

Y’all making it seem like she was fist fighting the boy or something 🤦🏽‍♀️ they are kids. Kids will hit each other from time to time regardless. If another child was bothering my kid I’ll tell them to stop bothering them. If they keep going (as kids sometimes don’t listen) then ima tell my child to push his ass away. His mother/father should’ve told him to stop bothering the little girl.

@liz41395, he’s not a man he’s a little boy and as the parent I’m going to teach her that violence is not the answer. Smacking is not how we solve problems . Use your words and than if it continues you separate them .

@liz41395, well most of the time he gets the right elbow because he’s too busy trying to cuddle and won’t shut off the ducking alarm

@damn.it.red, exactly. They are just little people. They have emotions too. I’m not going to be mad at her for doing exactly what I would have done! 😂 you probably have a mean right hook though. Your poor husband 😂

@liz41395, well if someone’s annoying me by holding me and laying all over me and I tell them to stop and they don’t I’m gonna knock them tf out. Ask my husband. He gets it couples times a week 😂😂😂

@damn.it.red, he probably wasn’t “hurting” her exactly, but he kept on. And let’s be honest, my 1 year olds little tap didn’t hurt him.

@liz41395, my daddy always told me if someone is doing something to physically hurt me I have the right to stick up for myself.

@queenmeeks, he’s a lot older than her she didn’t hurt the little boy. And we had told him that already. Once she did it he left her alone. I will teach my kid to defend herself though. If it’s something silly like taking a toy away she will get in trouble for hitting, but if someone keeps physically doing something to her and she defends herself I’m not going to be upset with her at all. Hopefully when she’s a teenager and an adult she will know she has the right to defend herself and how to do it.

@liz41395 he’s not a man tho, he’s a little boy. You or any other adult could have spoken up and said “hey, that’s enough. I know you’re happy to be around her, but she’s already told you to stop” and then separated them. Letting her just hit him and chalking it up to “he had it coming” isn’t the way to go about it.

@alishap1212, if a man continually hugged on you after you told him to stop I’m sure you’d be physical with him to get him to stop

I’m sorry but smacking is not the answer even if “he’d had it coming “ .