Throw the whole husband away if he not bout to help you around the house

I did not marry my husband because he was a provider and protector. Lol

I married him cause he’s cute and great in bed. Duh.

Nope dont agree. I dont think u should expect anything but i also dont think chores should be expected from a woman only

Disagree, this is some 1900s backwards thinking.

It’s 2018, I bust my ass to provide an income and “provide” for my family just as he does. We both share the responsibilities around the house.

Ps. I’m 33 weeks pregnant so he can do all the shit heavy lifting too! 😂

I still pull my weight - who makes sure everyone has all the “little things” that men have NO CLUE to keep a family/household like well oiled efficient machine? Me! I feel sorry for women who think they have a duty to live like this. Zombies.

@turkwannabemesobad your UN 🤣😂💀

Disagree with it. I did not sign up to be his damn mother. He better do his share of household chores. Smh

@nandf, get off mah post

Well then I hope my man doesn’t expect me to cook dinner or wash his clothes or take care of the kids. He didn’t marry but for love. Honestly I don’t expect him to do anything but when I ask for help I “expect” him to help or he can “expect” a divorce 💁🏽‍♀️

Heck no. Like someone said 50/50. If I could work I would. But I just had twins and we can't afford a babysitter or daycare.

😂😂😂😂 What kind of BS is this

My man works all damn day most days he doesn't get home until 8:00 at night, but he still manages to help me with things around the house on his days off. I work from 8:30 to 4:30 Monday thru Friday and clean everyday when I get home cause I can't relax until everything is clean cause I have OCD and am a neat freak. I don't mind being the one cleaning most days because I like to clean and I know he helps when he can and I'm grateful for that. We help each other 💯

I am not a maid.

We are supposed to be each other’s help mates and make each other’s lives easier not just his, whoever wrote this is misunderstanding the Bible just a little bit, yes it says Eve was Adams help mate but he was also hers too, man and woman were created as equals which means that we help each other and try not to put more burdens on one another. Yes as a stay at home wife and mother the house work is mine to do but that means my husband shouldn’t do things to make my job harder like making huge messes and not cleaning up after himself.

I Disagree , 50/50 For All Relationships /Marriages When It Comes To Anything

Nope.

I believe that as a SAHM, yes, most of the household chores do fall on me, but I still think a marriage is a PARTNERSHIP. There are some chores my husband is better at that he enjoys doing and some that I’m better at that I enjoy doing. Putting all the pressure on the woman to get EVERYTHING done also leads to a very unhappy marriage. Just like the kids are just as much his kids, when he comes home, he drops everything and spends time with our son until bedtime.

Yeah I don't agree with this my husband yesterday finally realize that although he works I work as well at home with taking care of my toddler and being high risk pregnancy and can't do much and he was like you want me to cook babe and I was like no I don't mind, you work all day and he's like well you're here all day you don't get to leave and I at least get to leave so I feel like you should relax a little, took awhile but he got it lol

That's a big nope.

Shit it’s my shoulders that hurt from carryin the damn team.

I bet her husband wrote this.

Wooop try again. ☝🏼

@turkwannabemesobad, your name 💀

As for the post, 👀 if I’m a stay at home I think the least I could do is have the house picked up when he gets home. That doesn’t mean that he can never help out with chores and he sure as hell will help with the kids. But as far as tidying the house? Meh, I think we should do it. And if I worked full time and he was a sahd, I would also expect to come home to a clean house.

The expectations ruining relationships thing 🤔 that’s just dumb. I’m sure he expects me to stay fit after having children. Just like I expect his ass to watch the kids so I can get my workout in. Jk I don’t work out 😂😂

This must have been written during the 1900s when it was also okay to beat your wife and women weren’t allowed to work.

I did not marry my husband because he was a provider and protector. Lol

I married him cause he’s cute and great in bed. Duh.

Completely disagree. Stuff like this makes me cringe.

So I’m suppose to carry all the housework alone to make his life easier? Nope not about that life. We’re all equal here.

Well if expectations destroy relationships then I guess I can't be expected to do the chores either. 😂

Throw the whole husband away if he not bout to help you around the house

@yestatipa, completely agree.

Lmfao! No way... My boyfriend cleans and does house chores as well as I do. Being that I'm 9 months pregnant, he just cleaned the entire apartment and I didn't have to do a thing, I did a couple little things but nothing major at all. I'll vacuum in a bit but other than that everything is done.

I will add, I’m not marrying someone to become a maid, mother or slave. 😐🙃

Nope nope nope. Marriage is 50/50

Hell no

NO! EFF THAT! I’m marrying my man because we make each other better. We work 100-100. When I can’t do something he does it. There’s no way in hell, in heaven or on earth Ima allow a man to not do chores when I KNOW he’s capable!

I dont 🤷🏻‍♀️ but I also wouldn’t make it a constant issue in our household

hell nah my man better help me foh hahaha hes good tho he helps with everything most times