But in some cases with girls it can be quite difficult.
Girls usually result in mental bullying most of the time. It is all “head games” to make you feel less of a person.
It also gets even worse as you get older into adult years as well, believe it or not.
They form groups against you, parade false information about you and or your loved ones to put you down and isolate you from others, taking away your joy and or happinesses even resulting to manipulating your kindness for a fool.
Head games
@jocy.ornelas, @nadi.1, @icebergahead, @cuppacoffee, @mommiesgoneabitmad, @mamaxghoul, @fairykarmamomma,
Thank you ladies for your mature and insightful discussion on this topic. It can certainly be a polarizing topic, and yet everyone here kept it classy. I appreciate everyone’s perspective on this! Thank you ladies! 😘❤️
I was the kid who had permission to whoop that ass if I was being picked on or bullied and was tired of it. I didn’t have to get this way until my sophomore year in HS when a guy was picking on girls and got in my face. I gave him three warnings then I beat that ass like he was on 73rd and E14th. The principal told my father in the streets I was right but at school I was wrong. I didn’t get in trouble except to wash walls. My honor worth the three day suspension. He got expelled and his family had to move
Parents need to teach their children manners and respect period and a huge majority of this generation of babies having babies seemed to miss that lesson unfortunately . If their child is being a bully, they need to evaluate themselves and what they have going on in their home to make this kid think bullying is okay. If I have to go into a meeting with parents because my son is being bullied that’s what I would be asking. If it was my child I would have to evaluate myself and what’s going on in my house so it goes both ways.
I always tell my son to let them know how you feel. Tell them to stop. The last resort would be to tell his teacher and if there is still a problem i will come to the school. We will always deal with bullying just need to know how to handle it. I wouldn't want him to be a bully back
@icebergahead, like he’s so small his pediatrician did xrays and tests but results came back normal, he’s a small bean like me. I’m 27, 4’10. I’m not getting any bigger than this but let me tell you, I’d never let someone punk me because they think they can.
@icebergahead, my mom was the exact opposite. I always had some skank ass bitch picking on me and I’ve had enough. Mom told if shit goes down, I better beat her ass because if she has to come get me at school and I lost, that’s MY ass. That’s 2 ass beatings if I fight and lose. 😂😂😂
I agree with sticking up for yourself but Not necessarily resorting to violence. Just because someone hits you doesn’t make it right or give you the right to hit them back. Just like in adult life if someone hits you you call the police if someone hits you as a kid you go to your teacher or the principal. But that’s just me. When my son was being bullied we actually went and sat down with the principal and his parents. Instead of resorting to violence we are trying to solve the deeper routed issue
We’ve reached out to the daycare providers and the coach, and yet, nothing changes. I think that is where my frustration and sadness comes from 😢
@scruffy.nerf.herder, that has to be rough! What is that showing your son? Ah I’m so sorry love
@mommiesgoneabitmad, thank you for your kindness 💜💜 My husband and I have been really struggling with this.
After the most recent soccer practice when my son got a “talking to” by the coach for shoving this boy, my son sobbed the whole way home. It absolutely BROKE my heart when my son said through tears “I hate my life, I wish I wasn’t even here and never played soccer” 😢
But in some cases with girls it can be quite difficult.
Girls usually result in mental bullying most of the time. It is all “head games” to make you feel less of a person.
It also gets even worse as you get older into adult years as well, believe it or not.
They form groups against you, parade false information about you and or your loved ones to put you down and isolate you from others, taking away your joy and or happinesses even resulting to manipulating your kindness for a fool.
Head games
A little girl pushed my son into a wall and busted the back of his head open....
I’m sorry but that little FEMALE got what she deserved....by getting suspended lmao. Little girls can be just as vicious
@jocy.ornelas, me too. I was a very shy kid up until middle school. Girls can be physical, of course. That is why in some cases there is physical bullying too. I had my hair pulled, been shoved and even kicked.
But some do like that mind game crap that is very confusing and or discomforting. Only to slowly develop trust issues in your adult years. It even happens here on ML daily. Some
Just do not grow out of it.
Teach your children that is is wrong to hurt others as well as. Find the source of the chaos. Some kids just have issues they can not express and some are just mean to be mean with no end.
I used to believe the first one, but now that my son is being harassed by his own soccer teammate, I’m definitely changing how I feel on this.
When my son finally had enough of being pushed and hit at soccer practice, he yelled at the boy and shoved back. The coach tells us after practice that we need to talk to our son because he “unleashed” on that boy. What the hell? Coach is friends with the other boy’s family, so of course my son gets all the blame.
This is after a whole summer of this boy hitting my son in daycare, taunting my son about not making the soccer team, and then when the team selection was revealed and my son had indeed made it, telling my son that he was on the good team and my son was on the second-best team.
I’m okay if my son stands up for himself, in whatever manner he sees fit, with that boy. We’ve had enough.
I’m sorry your son is going through all that. It must be really stressful for him wanting to go back to school. I totally agree. He needs to stand up for himself.
@jocy.ornelas, thank you, it has been tough to navigate this.
I fully agree... Y must my son by your child's punch bag just because your child has issues and anger problems... My son will hit back and i wil have a smile on my face

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@jocy.ornelas, @nadi.1, @icebergahead, @cuppacoffee, @mommiesgoneabitmad, @mamaxghoul, @fairykarmamomma,
Thank you ladies for your mature and insightful discussion on this topic. It can certainly be a polarizing topic, and yet everyone here kept it classy. I appreciate everyone’s perspective on this! Thank you ladies! 😘❤️