Nate's colic has been so bad the last three days along with his reflux. He keeps spitting up. I took him in and he has lost weight and now they want him to see a GI specialist. GI can't get him in until July 3rd. I'm not sure how we are going to make it that long. I love him so much. I can't stand to see him struggling.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
I had to share this picture of Raptor! He is still doing amazing! He has lost a little bit of weight but that's expected! Yesterday was our second time trying to breast feed and he latched and sucked!!! It was so amazing and I am so proud of him!
So guys need a bit of help. what do you do when you other half has been away for over a week cause he says he needs time to clear his head an sort things out. This is due to me trying to make him realize he can't go out 2/3 times a week an get off his face as there is little time till his baby is born. and he needs to start giving some money for her as he has bought nothing. He said he was coming to see me on Friday however there was no word so I gave him a call. Suprise Suprise he was out on the ale again. I then get a message yesterday telling me he can't be assed anymore so in other words am going to leave you cause I can't give up partying. what the hell do I do I love him so much an want nothing more to be a family but he just can't see past his partying an he has done all this to me knowing my family are abroad an have no idea so I am dealing with this on my own. I just don't no what to do my heads a mess an I can't stop crying :( x
The amount of hair he has in unreal! He is seriously so perfect and I love him to pieces already. ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
Jelly 🔮·
Poor baby , when your feeding are you pace feeding sometimes that seems to help .. or keep him sitting up for a while
Letty ·
Only thing that worked was the kiinde bottle slow flow and the wedge pillow
MoT·
@jellybeans_mumm we tried pace feeding but he gets so upset and screams so hard we gave up. Maybe now he will let us. I'll try sitting him up more! Thanks for the suggestions!
MoT·
@mrs.letty.luna thanks I will have to try this!