Thanks just never thought it would come to this xx

oh hun, im so sorry to hear this, although if thats he's attitude towards u and bubba then maybe ur better off without him. men really can be dickheads sometimes. it seems like u have good support from ur family, so don't feel like u have to cope alone xx

Thanks for the advice girls xx

He has contacted me an no longer wants to be with me so he is leaving I have to arrange for this to be moved an get back my keys absolute heartbroken an can't get over it but me an my baby will always come first xx

Wow!!! This guy sounds like a selfish prick!! Sry for the honesty but if that was my bf id tell him to kindly 'do one!' You are carrying his child and he hasnt got the decency to support you!! My advice would be to focus on you and baby and forget about this pathetic excuse of a man!!! You deserve better chick, and as much as we can all give you advice, its up to you what you choose to do. And at the end of the day ull only do what makes you happy. This guy needs to catch a grip and quickly. Its his loss at the end of the day. Hope you get things sorted xxx

He never showed girls an never even contacted me his phone is now off. guess I no were me an my baby stand 😢 x

I would do if he showed up x

Let us know how u get on hun xxx

He is meant to be coming to see me today so I hope he does xx

Yeah, give him a call and tell him you want to talk :) x Some guys never like to admit they are scared. How was his own childhood? and his father? Any fears or anything...I know I can always talk to my boyfriend about them...and he supports and reassures me. He's quite a relaxed person on the outside...but I know there's a lot going on inside. It really helps if you can have a deep conversation with your partner :) and feel comfortable expressing yourself to them. But a lot of guys want to seem macho and not show any weakness. Which is not the best way to deal with problems. You need to get him to open up to you :) @sarah29493 I hope things turn out great for you and please let us know how things go :) x

Thank u @winterbaby95 that's Wat I was thinking I just need him to come an see me x

You know what? I think he is scared at the prospect of becoming a father...and his only way to deal with it may be to get drunk all the time. I think he is trying to escape from it. You really need to sit down and have a heart to heart....even if he is scared or frightened..he can't act immature and irresponsible. That's not the right way to deal with it. Truthfully he may not be ready to take that responsibility of being a father.... but sometimes things do change once the baby is born and they do see sense. But right now you should try and focus on the baby and not stress out about things. I know you may have never thought about becoming a single mum. My mum raised me and my siblings by herself and did a great job. It may be hard at first. But make sure you get the support of family and friends. It takes two to make a baby... so he really needs to get his priorities in order. It may be the prospect of being a dad or something deeper @sarah29493

Thanks girls for the advice I know you are all right I guess I just can't believe that this is happening to me. I no I don't deserve this an he was never like this its just been the last month or so. I just feel trapped an the problem being is he doesn't come home when he has been out not until he his hungover and is useless to do anything. xx

It seems he's made his bed. You should contact your family and tell them. I'm sure they will want to support you. Anyway hope that helped but only you truly know what to do xxx

It sounds harsh but in all fairness you want your child to grow up not thinking of his/her dad as the man who's always at the pub

Who are we to give you advice on your relationship but if u ask me it sounds like he's never gonna change. It's as if he's easily led by the boys and tbh they should know better. Have you spoke to his friend or girlfriends of his friends? At a time when your meant to be enjoying this journey together and your needing him more than ever he shouldn't be doing this to you. Just wait till little'en gets here you'll be soon seeing you have every reason to leave him. Do u really want to be tired, rushed off your feet, just getting baby to sleep, getting some you time & he walks in like a drunken mess falling on the child's toys, waking child up and then there you go your back to being stressed out.

as @pj said, u and bubba come before him right now. its very hard 😞 these men dont seem to understand what our bodies and emotions go through during pregnancy.. i honestly think some guys dont realise what a big responsibility a baby is until its actually born. when are ur family back ftom holiday hun? how old is ur man. feel free to pm me if u want to xxx

I just can't see myself doing this alone. He always says he knows what he does isn't fair on me or the baby but he just can't seem to give it up. It feels like this isn't what he wants anymore an I never thought it would be like this at the being I was so happy I was about to have my own family I have my own place then all of a sudden I just feel so alone. An never thought I would be a single mum it's just breaking me an I am scared that if I let it affect me to much it will effect the baby. xxx

I know its going to be hard ( and easier said than done) put him 2nd. you do all that you can and look after babba and you're health, deal with him later. you've told him what he should do yet he's not, why stress repeating your self. sort him out later on after the babba is born. x x sounds harsh I know x x