Ok I'm seriously on the verge of a freaking mental break down. I feel a panic attack coming on full force. I get induced on Tuesday and our car is completely fxcked. That means no ride to and from work for my bf, no ride to the store, to pay our bills. We are beyond broke and I can't understand why. Why now?! We are so freaking screwed. I feel like the worst parent right now! Everything is so fxcked just like that.
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If you have insurance (my Medicaid offers this so hopefully you have it too) call the member services number on the back! They have transportation services and I’m sure it would be free, at least it would help you get to the hospital and to stores. You’re not a bad parent love don’t ever think that❤️
God is good. I remember this awesome story, ill prolly mess it up but this man had the worst day, was extremely hot he stubbed his toe immediately getting outta bed, then went to get ready for work no tooth paste, then went to go to work his car wouldnt start, then when he finally got his car started he was sitting in traffic and worried about loosing his job. He cried out to God and said "why me?! Its like you hate me," God came and said you are sitting in traffic due to an accident by a drunk tractor trailer driver....if you left on time you wouldnt have made it." After that the man realized everything really does happen for a reason even if we dont understand at the time. Sending prayers to you and ur family 💖🙏🙏
Sorry you’re going through this . Are there any agencies around that help pregnant mothers? If so , maybe you can get temporary assistance . Meanwhile , if you have friends or family nearby see if they can help with rides if they have a car. On another note , having situations beyond your control happen does NOT make you a bad parent . I’m sure you’ll get this situation figured out and all will be well . Praying for a way to be made for you . HUGS
@suz. Our town is big enough that stores are not walking distance but to small to have Uber or Lyft my mom is not very reliable and my sister tries to help so I'm hoping we can get through this as easy and smoothly as possible.
@buffbabyislife, no problem we have to uplift each other put positive energy out there
Don’t listen to the lies, you are not a bad parent! Things just happen out of our control and you can’t add stress to yourself by blaming yourself. Gotta keep level headed for your baby, and remind yourself you are the perfect mother for your child 😊
I can only imagine the stress you are going through.. my husband and I went through some hard times as well, but honestly only God was able to pull us through and gave us all the provisions we needed out of nowhere. I know it may be hard, but ask Him for what you need with trust and faith, and put some plans in place as much as you can!
Will you be able to afford an Uber/ Lyft, or ask a neighbor in advance for that day?
@buffbabyislife, U still have time, life always has changes and stuff happens ALOT! Ur his momma, he will always love u
@joyfulmom2b very true I just don't want to feel like I'm letting him down
@babymema30 thanks so much believe it or not this really is helping me calm down
@buffbabyislife, of course 💕 believe me this site has helped me so much bc otherwise I wouldn’t receive any support at times.. but u are completely right and at the worst of times.. hopefully the car situation works out or u guys can have someone help u, plus side You’ll have a bundle of joy in ur arms soon 😊
Sorry to hear you going thru so much try to stay positive despite wats goin on things will get better my love
@joyfulmom2b thanks for the support. I just seems that when things fall they crumble completely.
I’m sorry to hear that and I hope stuff turns around for u! But I feel this.. women go through hell and high water a lot during pregnancy apparently 😒
Im sorry! Is there a bus system you guys can use? Does a local grocery store deliver? You could always ask your neighbor if when they go to the store, if you could join them to do your shopping as well. I hope it gets easier!