Why Am I Feeling Alone in My Pregnancy?
Rant beginning... So I’m almost 23 weeks pregnant with my first child. I live about 2.5-3 hours away from my boyfriend due to school and i also work part time... He has came to visit me 3 times since August I used to go up once or twice a month before i found out i was pregnant in February and got my part-time job, he’s missed 3 of the 5 doctor appointments I’ve had (including the gender ultrasound) and he didn’t bother come visit me this long weekend and he wonders why I am upset. He blames me for the arguments because I am so frustrated and done with feeling alone through this pregnancy... I want this to work but I also don’t want to do everything alone and do everything one-sidedly... Rant over...
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@mommy1991, its hard cause we’ve been together for 3 years, lived together for 2 and i only moved for school... i stopped going up every month in march because it cost so much in gas and with work and school im just soo tired... when i asked what he did this weekend he said he sat at home... like am i really not that important to come see... i feel really hurt and i dont know if im over reacting or not...
You either want a baby or you don't. There's no in between. And since you're pregnant I'd let him know to get on board or gtfo.
If it was me I would be very concerned. Either be in this or don't. And if I was gonna be a father I would want to know how my baby was developing and I would want to see it's little heart beating and see it move around in my girlfriends tummy. I would want to be involved every step of the way.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
@babymama0918 You're not overreacting. I would feel the same way and he would know about it. He wouldn't have time to forget about it