Oh husband!!
Here we are in month 5 of TTC #3. Last month my DH complained because he said he felt like I only wanted to sleep with him because I want to get pregnant. I told him that wasn't my only intention but it obviously is a goal of ours!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Starting TWW. Anyone else? I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Ashley Roan·
I am so sorry for your loss, PP! :-(
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@arrmom my son was still born at 18 weeks because his cord got tied in a knot. I know lots of people would have a problem with me TTC so early but my doctor said physically it shouldn't be a problem. She said the only problem is dating the pregnancy.
Ashley Roan·
And you are right, we could use a break! We are going on a snowboarding trip at the end of the month and I wasn't planning on snowboarding (thinking I would be pregnant by now), but if I'm not, I could!
I could also booze it up a little which would be nice! Haha!
Ashley Roan·
We have a great relationship, it's just been this one thing over the past few months.
I wonder if he's just a little apprehensive about having another kid. He told me after #2 that he didn't want anymore but them changed his mind 5 months ago so we started to TTC.
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My situation isn't tense it just makes men feel used because we want something so bad and they hold the key when it goes from them wanting sex all the time to you then wanting sex all the time they no you are only wanting sex all the time to get what you want... A baby! That makes them feel used and they are rite too! But they also have to remember we want to make a family with them because we love them and we wouldn't want to make a family with anyone else! That's why we are with them because we love them and want to make babies with them! (But when ttc we are using them) ..... Immaculate conception just isn't a realistic goal! ?
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If your marriage is having problems maybe skipping this month and not working for your third is a good idea. My ex husband and I got like this and both felt like we only wanted sex to have a kid. We went three months with nothing after I stopped initiating. And eventually called it quits. Adding another child into a tense situation like this isn't going to help.
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My husband was saying the same thing and told me we needed a "ttc break". The month we took the break we had a ton more sex than we usually would and got pregnant! And it was a lot more fun ;) taking a break isn't so bad
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I think you should just go for bding tonight. When ur bding it does take away some intimacy but I think that's normal.. just have some love making during ur non fertile week.
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I had this same problem. No matter how bad it hurt me I just did what you are thinkin about doin. BUT!, I would make sure Id take a shower and dress into somethin so skimpy lol all clean and in a shirt that showed the girls in some sexy underwear hahaha. Then I'd lay w my back toward him pushed up against his you know. Lol it worked almost everytime! he couldnt resist!
bhahaha >=). So then you're really initiating it indirectly and he thinks hes pouncing on you all by himself. Good luck!
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Three weeks ago!! Holy cow! My mum n auntie are ten months apart!
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Yeah mines exactly the same! Before we started ttc he was always the one that initiate sex however now I am and he's not bothered however I played dress up the other day and he liked it! I know this mite sound bad but my end goal is getting prego I actually don't care if he just lays their lol! Is that awful? I've got to get it on tonight but he's in a bad mood someone broke into his car! (His cars pride and joy)
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Ttc after 3 weeks?! That safe for your body??
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I just delivered my son 3 weeks ago and I am TTC right now. I feel like I'm the only one initiating sex at the moment. I told him he could hand over his reproductive organs and leave the rest to me! :)
It's hard to feel "in the moment"
When your trying to get pregnant. Are you intimate during the time when pregnancy really isn't possible? I would just not tell your husband about your cycle or O days. It might be better if he just doesn't know.