I am so sorry for your loss, PP! :-(

@arrmom my son was still born at 18 weeks because his cord got tied in a knot. I know lots of people would have a problem with me TTC so early but my doctor said physically it shouldn't be a problem. She said the only problem is dating the pregnancy.

And you are right, we could use a break! We are going on a snowboarding trip at the end of the month and I wasn't planning on snowboarding (thinking I would be pregnant by now), but if I'm not, I could!

I could also booze it up a little which would be nice! Haha!

We have a great relationship, it's just been this one thing over the past few months.

I wonder if he's just a little apprehensive about having another kid. He told me after #2 that he didn't want anymore but them changed his mind 5 months ago so we started to TTC.

My situation isn't tense it just makes men feel used because we want something so bad and they hold the key when it goes from them wanting sex all the time to you then wanting sex all the time they no you are only wanting sex all the time to get what you want... A baby! That makes them feel used and they are rite too! But they also have to remember we want to make a family with them because we love them and we wouldn't want to make a family with anyone else! That's why we are with them because we love them and want to make babies with them! (But when ttc we are using them) ..... Immaculate conception just isn't a realistic goal! ?

If your marriage is having problems maybe skipping this month and not working for your third is a good idea. My ex husband and I got like this and both felt like we only wanted sex to have a kid. We went three months with nothing after I stopped initiating. And eventually called it quits. Adding another child into a tense situation like this isn't going to help.

My husband was saying the same thing and told me we needed a "ttc break". The month we took the break we had a ton more sex than we usually would and got pregnant! And it was a lot more fun ;) taking a break isn't so bad

I think you should just go for bding tonight. When ur bding it does take away some intimacy but I think that's normal.. just have some love making during ur non fertile week.

I had this same problem. No matter how bad it hurt me I just did what you are thinkin about doin. BUT!, I would make sure Id take a shower and dress into somethin so skimpy lol all clean and in a shirt that showed the girls in some sexy underwear hahaha. Then I'd lay w my back toward him pushed up against his you know. Lol it worked almost everytime! he couldnt resist!

bhahaha >=). So then you're really initiating it indirectly and he thinks hes pouncing on you all by himself. Good luck!

Three weeks ago!! Holy cow! My mum n auntie are ten months apart!

Yeah mines exactly the same! Before we started ttc he was always the one that initiate sex however now I am and he's not bothered however I played dress up the other day and he liked it! I know this mite sound bad but my end goal is getting prego I actually don't care if he just lays their lol! Is that awful? I've got to get it on tonight but he's in a bad mood someone broke into his car! (His cars pride and joy)

Ttc after 3 weeks?! That safe for your body??

I just delivered my son 3 weeks ago and I am TTC right now. I feel like I'm the only one initiating sex at the moment. I told him he could hand over his reproductive organs and leave the rest to me! :)

It's hard to feel "in the moment"

When your trying to get pregnant. Are you intimate during the time when pregnancy really isn't possible? I would just not tell your husband about your cycle or O days. It might be better if he just doesn't know.