Need of advice or stories
Has anyone just come to terms that there not gonna have a kid. I've been trying for 4 years and have had one miscarriage which was a year ago. I just feel like giving up and I'm okay with that. My friends say I shouldn't, but this whole process is stressful. I think I rather not worry about it anymore. Any advice on the topic ?
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I felt the same. It can take a long time! We had tried for 5 years without the slightest bit of luck. No positive pregnancy tests or opks at all.. but i have irregular periods too.
In january i finally had a period and decided to give pregnitude a try. I finally got a positive opk so me and hubby bd. 10 days later i got a bfp! I was in shock. I sadly miscarriage 2 weeks later though. It was deviating. I felt like it was a huge smack in the face. Like it was some cruel joke.. it hurt me allot emotionally. But i didnt wanna give up. I started pregnitude again after i stopped bleeding from the miscarriage(took about 2 weeks i think) and it didnt seem to be working (i didnt think anyways) but i kept taking it. Probably a month and a half to 2 months later i got another positive opk so me and hubby bd again and 10 days later i got another bfp. I made a dr apt as soon as i found out. They got me in a week or 2 later and confirmed i was pregnant and we set up a ultrasound to check how far along i was since the go by your last period and i hadnt had one since my miscarriage. It was that next week and we found out it was twins and i was 6 weeks 1 day and both babies had heartbeats. I went in for my 12 week scan to find out i had lost one of the twins(vanishing twin syndrome) but im currently 29 weeks pregnant with the remaining baby and everything else has went fantastic :). Shes a healthy baby girl!
It can be a long and even sad and frustrating process, but don't give up!
Thank you!!! I think it best to let nature-take course at this point. Congrats on being pregnant I wish you happy healthy 9 months:)!
I’ve been in that same spot a couple of times. I have a 4-yr old but have really struggled to conceive #2. I’ve had 2 mcs and decided after the first one to give up after trying for a year with nothing to show for it, and then got pregnant the following month. But unfortunately had my second mc. From there, I stopped temping and doing opks, I just found that stuff made me crazy. Instead, I just went by my ewm and timed intercourse that way. 6 months later, I’m pregnant again and am now 9w1d, hoping for the best. I think it’s good to stop obsessing and letting go a bit if you can. Still hope, but don’t let it take over your entire life.
I'm sorry to here what you are going through. I truly know how you feel hun, please please stay strong and don't give up. We were TTC for just over 3 year and I had 4 conservative losses in that time and every single one shattered my heart into a thousand pieces, I was given fertility drugs after my 4th loss but after 10 months we still never conceived, I stop taking them and gave up and pretty much thought it was never going to happen BUT 2 months later i fell pregnant all on our own. Our beautiful girl is now 12 weeks old and was so worth all the wait and heart ache. She was born by c section at 41 weeks weighting 8lb 4oz. We have called her Hope!. Please don't give up on your dreams, dreams can come true. Never give up hoping x