Need of advice or stories

I'm sorry to here what you are going through. I truly know how you feel hun, please please stay strong and don't give up. We were TTC for just over 3 year and I had 4 conservative losses in that time and every single one shattered my heart into a thousand pieces, I was given fertility drugs after my 4th loss but after 10 months we still never conceived, I stop taking them and gave up and pretty much thought it was never going to happen BUT 2 months later i fell pregnant all on our own. Our beautiful girl is now 12 weeks old and was so worth all the wait and heart ache. She was born by c section at 41 weeks weighting 8lb 4oz. We have called her Hope!. Please don't give up on your dreams, dreams can come true. Never give up hoping x

I felt the same. It can take a long time! We had tried for 5 years without the slightest bit of luck. No positive pregnancy tests or opks at all.. but i have irregular periods too.

In january i finally had a period and decided to give pregnitude a try. I finally got a positive opk so me and hubby bd. 10 days later i got a bfp! I was in shock. I sadly miscarriage 2 weeks later though. It was deviating. I felt like it was a huge smack in the face. Like it was some cruel joke.. it hurt me allot emotionally. But i didnt wanna give up. I started pregnitude again after i stopped bleeding from the miscarriage(took about 2 weeks i think) and it didnt seem to be working (i didnt think anyways) but i kept taking it. Probably a month and a half to 2 months later i got another positive opk so me and hubby bd again and 10 days later i got another bfp. I made a dr apt as soon as i found out. They got me in a week or 2 later and confirmed i was pregnant and we set up a ultrasound to check how far along i was since the go by your last period and i hadnt had one since my miscarriage. It was that next week and we found out it was twins and i was 6 weeks 1 day and both babies had heartbeats. I went in for my 12 week scan to find out i had lost one of the twins(vanishing twin syndrome) but im currently 29 weeks pregnant with the remaining baby and everything else has went fantastic :). Shes a healthy baby girl!

It can be a long and even sad and frustrating process, but don't give up!

Thanks! It’ll happen for you. Don’t give up, just try to not obsess and let it take over your life.

Thank you!!! I think it best to let nature-take course at this point. Congrats on being pregnant I wish you happy healthy 9 months:)!

I’ve been in that same spot a couple of times. I have a 4-yr old but have really struggled to conceive #2. I’ve had 2 mcs and decided after the first one to give up after trying for a year with nothing to show for it, and then got pregnant the following month. But unfortunately had my second mc. From there, I stopped temping and doing opks, I just found that stuff made me crazy. Instead, I just went by my ewm and timed intercourse that way. 6 months later, I’m pregnant again and am now 9w1d, hoping for the best. I think it’s good to stop obsessing and letting go a bit if you can. Still hope, but don’t let it take over your entire life.