seriously????? My sister-in-law just told me her wedding date is July 6th...Im due June 22nd....my baby will only be 2…

My baby will be two weeks old too at my sisters wedding, I have no issues with it

2 days after I gave birth to my third we attended a funeral. We just stayed for the service and left right after. Maybe just attend the ceremony? I just had my little bean in a ring sling tucked away from the rest of the world so everybody wasn’t touching him.

Honestly I wouldn’t go. I would tell my SO that he can go and take the older kids but I would stay home. The pain I had after my son I could barely get out of bed never mind going to a wedding.

I realize I’m probably a lot more stubborn and meaner then most people. I didn’t want to wear the dress my sister picked out for her bridesmaids and I told her thank you for asking me but I’m not wearing that dress so I will just attend as a guest. In the end I got the dress I wanted and she had me in her wedding like she wanted. So I have no problem telling people what I will and won’t do even if it’s not considered ‘respectful’.

That’s rough but I’m sure with Family there it won’t be too rough. But dress size, having a place to breast feed, having designated people to pass baby off too, as well as trying to keep people from touching or kissing your baby when they are that small are all considerations you might scout out. Best of luck. That’s the crazy thing about becoming a parent. Kids have to fit in your life regardless of circumstances. It takes a lot of adjusting to at first but it gets easier with time. I was so grateful I had two other girls my age in Family who had literally just had kids. So it made it slightly easier when we stuck together and someone always had a plan figured out.

Yeah I feel you. I’m just praying you’ll be over the afterbirth pain. Geez. Buuuuut the good thing is it’s outside (hopefully no rain) and you could probably use the fresh air by then. You can tuck your lil bum in a Moby wrap and pray they sleep through it. And it’ll be well past flu season :)?