Forcing an abortion I just had to tell you guys a very funny story. So my bd has been on his period for the past couple…

@lilmomma it's a fugue of speech. I meant he's been having an attitude with me and acting really pissy.....kinda like some women do when they are pms'ing

how does ur bd have a period? i didnt know guys have periods.

@alyboo, I'm so sorry you had to deal with that ? I pray that everything was healed with you and that you have a safe pregnancy. What ever happened to the guy who pushed you? Please tell me he went to jail or something. It's crazy the extremes that men will do in order to NOT take care of their responsibilities

Yeah even the before this, when I was at his house, of I left my drink to go to the bathroom or something, I wouldn't drink it again. Since I told him I was pregnant he never wanted this baby so I always figured he would do something crazy. It does scare me honestly and I think it's best that I do stay away

I know it's sort of manipulative but maybe leak that you food get an abortion our lost it our something, just so he stays away for your safety, and so he doesn't try to get any rights to your child later...

Be careful plz in high school I fell pregnant but my bf at the time got sent to a all boy facility because he kept getting in trouble at school. Well I was 19 weeks with a boy & my ex pushed me into a gaurd rail on the stairs going up to the second floor caused my placenta to abrupt and baby coukdnt survive...iv never talked about it here on bb it saddens me makes me want to crawl into a hole and die because if I wluld have avoided my ex my baby would be a healthy 6 year old .....:( keep ypur head up sweetie

I get what you're saying about it being funny

Not funny-haha

But funny-sad.

I'd be like have you lost yo damn mind boy? f*** outta here with that s*** . Lol

Just keep away from him because he seems like he on some otha typa mess. #crazy

My ex husband was pushing me hard to get an abortion done with my last baby, he went as far as telling me he taking my kids away if I dont get one. At around 5-6 months he was pushing for adoption, said he'd give me extra money and everything. I was never concerned about my safety, he wasnt that far gone. Stay safe, gl.

Yeah because he may be planning something that u are not aware of. Like making u have an abortion by hurting u or something. That's freaking weird and I would be scared to death. So glad u are smart enough not to talk to him anymore..

Stay away from him! Far away! What a jack ass!!!!

Yeah I'm going to stay away from him bc I don't know what he's capable of. I hate that he knows where I stay at now.....but I will be extra careful now

Wow he needs to grow up and please stay away from him I don't know you but I don't want you or your baby to get hurt or harmed in any way possible.

My so said that to me while we were arguing ... Needless to say I didnt change my mind I had his child put him on child support and.even after we got together still didnt take him off!

He wants you to get an abortion at 5 1/2 months pregnant? What a creep!

All I can say is stay strong...

Dude has lost is damn mind

Yeah I thought I was too far along bc a nurse told me that 20 weeks was the cut off. And besides I couldn't kill my baby....I don't believe thus in God's plans. And this is a perfectly healthy baby. Who am I to end his/her life just bc the daddy is being an AHole and doesn't want to take care of his responsibility. Thanks ladies for your responses. I will look into terminating his rights before the baby is born.

U need to sort sonething now b4 baby is born bevause what happens thrn is men tupically use the baby to control you No ones ever gna be my kids daddy or ill take that kid away I dunno if you csn get parental rights signed away b4 birth but id look ibto it Keep his name off birth cert and get a restraining order NOW

Edit : buttons r too close together hitting wrong letters lol

I didn't think you meant funny haha. I knew what you were meaning. Please keep all messages and document anything that he does. And if you feel you need it, then go get a restraining order. Hugs honey xx

I went throw the same thing if you ever wanna talk pm me cause I was with my bf for a year got pregnant and he got lost he wants nothing to do with our child and he 100% knows its his he just doesn't care so him and his new gf can enjoy there lives and ill be the best mother I can be simple as that

He seems like an idiot. You are too far along to have any type of abortion. And I wouldn't even consider it at all! You need to stay away from him or he will hurt you and your unborn. Get a restraining order and have people around that will protect you

Yes change your number and get a restraining order and he obviously wants nothing to do with the child so tell him to go f*** hisself and don't worry about YOUR child he a clown

Honestly, before I got pregnant, everything was fine. We were happy. Then once I got pregnant, everything changed

I had to laugh at it to keep from crying. I've been through so much with him.....arguing when I first got pregnant and literally arguing with him every week bc something doesn't make him happy. I don't know why I didn't see it before but he's very controlling and I just can't deal with it anymore. I had to stop stressing over him a long time ago because I didn't want my baby to feel any of that. In completely done at this point. I was trying to hold on so my baby wouldn't be without a father, like I was, but obviously that isn't the best choice. I'm no longer contacting him.

Also. Save the messages. You'll need then because I'd bet he'll want custody.

I don't see anything funny about this. What a pathetic loser.

What an idiot! You go girl, don't let anyone tell you what to do with YOUR baby

Wow! I would be concerned about that. I'm not sure what like he is normally, but seriously l just be cautious

I'd get a restraining order ASAP.

He sounds terrible.

What a dick! I agree with pp, steer clear. Not a safe situation.

I don't see the humor but now I'm afraid for you. He could beat you in the tummy or shove you into traffic. Keep away from him.