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Erika Y

Aww man I had been avoiding a cervix check because I didn't want to know if I was effaced or dilated because I knew that…

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I had been avoiding a cervix check because I didn't want to know if I was effaced or dilated because I knew that if he told me I'd start getting impatient wondering when my baby would make her arrival. I agreed to get checked because my Dr. checked me for hemorrhoids and was already down there so I said why not. Well I'm almost 39 weeks and to my surprise my cervix was closed. I've been cramping lately, feeling pressure, peeing almost every 5 minutes, and walking hurts. I was starting to think I was dilating but nooopppee. Now I regret it and I know it doesn't mean anything but I'm thinking about it constantly lol blaaahhh!!

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Sorry momma. I am 39+6 and at my appointment yesterday the doctor told me I went from 1cm to 1/2cm. I'm literally closing up. I know it's discouraging, trust me I know, but maybe we will just wait til labor to dilate? Good luck!

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I'm 38 and still 1.5 cm. However with my second DD I was 2cm from 36 weeks till 39-3 when I went in labor. So it really doesn't mean much. Just keep positive.

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It for real means nothing! I had a cervix check the day my water broke with my son and I was high and tight.

Ya never know, stay happy :)

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Are you ftm? I've heard it's actually really common to not dilate ahead of time. My OB thought it was a little unusual that I started dilating so early on.

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erikaawhy

Erika Y

Thanks mommies for the encouragement and support! As long as my baby is growing and healthy then I'm happy.

Yes I'm a ftm (:

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I don't think she gets it.

I don't think she gets it. I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.

When did you ladies start getting checked to see if your dilating? I am 36 weeks 4 days and not once have any of my…

When did you ladies start getting checked to see if your dilating? I am 36 weeks 4 days and not once have any of my doctors checked to see if I am or not.. Only been checked to see if my son is head down, and he is.. Last week I went and the doctor said that she didn't wanna check to see if I was dilating cause she didn't wanna "mess with my cervix" 😕 or "get things started" those were her words... FTM