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Brittany
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When did you ladies start getting checked to see if your dilating? I am 36 weeks 4 days and not once have any of my…

When did you ladies start getting checked to see if your dilating? I am 36 weeks 4 days and not once have any of my doctors checked to see if I am or not.. Only been checked to see if my son is head down, and he is.. Last week I went and the doctor said that she didn't wanna check to see if I was dilating cause she didn't wanna "mess with my cervix" 😕 or "get things started" those were her words... FTM

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thebaileys

BrittanyВ ожидании первенца

@sunshine1, I have four doctors.. I met two.. First one was kinda mean ish and the second one was a sweetheart

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sunshine1

jordanВ ожидании первенца

I had a catheter and it didn't bother me! But checking to see how much I've dilated killed me! I'm seriously dreading the next time.... Maybe your doctor is nicer than mine hahah

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ftmbabyboy11

ChelsieВ ожидании первенца

My doc said she will start checking me every week beginning at my 36 week appointment

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thebaileys

BrittanyВ ожидании первенца

@sunshine1, I laugh when they check my cervix.. Even when I got a catheter done 😂

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sunshine1

jordanВ ожидании первенца

I guess some doctors may be more gentle than others, because I've heard it hurts some women but not others. I literally almost cried it hurt so bad though. Then I lost my plug and had my bloody show 2 days later, so I'm wondering if it triggered that

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thebaileys

BrittanyВ ожидании первенца

@sunshine1, why'd it hurt you?

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sunshine1

jordanВ ожидании первенца

I just got checked for the first time at 36 weeks. Be thankful you haven't, it really hurt me!

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missing115user

missing115userВ ожидании первенца

My doctor checked me at my last appointment and I was 36 weeks

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bryawna13

Bryawna FarmerВ ожидании первенца

Don't worry that's normal for some doctors. Mine is the same way! I didn't get checked till 39 weeks

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sharondap2005

Sharonda PaytonМама четверых детей

It's when they try to separate your membranes from your uterus to try and naturally induce labor.

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thebaileys

BrittanyВ ожидании первенца

@sharondap2005, what's sweep your membrane??? 😐

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missing257user

missing257userМама дочки (1 год)

Yeah it was a nasty feeling I'm like ewww but glad my water broke cause I didn't want them too induced me at all and yeah ask your doctor about that too see when they gonna check if you dilating tell them ur concern and want too be check too see if u are dilating

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mommytoprinceaiden092915

Jasmine AtencioВ ожидании первенца

They don't want to start checking until at least 37 weeks because it could jump start labor

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sharondap2005

Sharonda PaytonМама четверых детей

My doctor told me to many vaginal exams can cause a infection. I was getting induced so at 37 weeks they checked me and tried to sweep my membranes but they couldn't because I was fully closed.

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theredheadchic

theredheadchicВ ожидании первенца

I've heard of both. Some doctors dnt want to mess w ur cervix bc they dnt want to force labor to start, & then I've also heard of them checking u at 36 weeks. I guess it depends on the doctor. I go for my 36wk check up Tuesday so I guess I'll know which way my doctor goes then..

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thebaileys

BrittanyВ ожидании первенца

@pregnancy2, @ak16 @sharondap2005 my momma was kinda concerned about why they weren't checking to see if I'm dilating she said that its weird that they haven't started yet.. Hopefully Tuesday when I go to my appointment they will but idk 😣 and ewwww so when my water breaks I hope I'm on the toilet, at home, or in shower cause that sounds gross.

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missing257user

missing257userМама дочки (1 год)

they should be checking at 36 weeks and when your water breaks the discharge looks like snot and bloody looking

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ak16

ak16Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

Around 32 weeks they always check me even though I get C-sections she still checks to make sure we are on schedule

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sharondap2005

Sharonda PaytonМама четверых детей

They didn't check me until 37 weeks.

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I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't…

I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!