Well...?
I just found out my sister is pregnant again...This makes me happy for her but sad for me. ? When will it be my turn? She already has a 8month old baby and now another on the way... My sister in law is about to pop this will be her 3rd ... So that leaves me out...now to deal with the questions : When are u having a baby? Why don't u have one already ? Your behind! Ughhh ? ...sorry venting
Oh ok ... Wow that's good cant wait till I loose that much hopefully I do it lol .... I know me too ughh
@chrissyroze ... I'm the same way.... My period are like sooooo off I don't even remember when was my last... :( .....are u regular now ? I know how u feel ... Sometimes I feel depressed and really sad about not being able to get pregnant after like 2 hrs.... But I just try to keep my head up and not loose faith ...
@Samalou Thank u I hope it went good too..... Just waiting to hear my results back from my doctor ...patiently waiting :/ .... Oh really ?? Do u have diabetes in ur family? I started eating less and healthy too for the last week ...already lost 3lbs.... I have to keep this up to at least regulate my period ... I hope that that is all I need....:( ....
I know how you feel . I tried to conceive a few years ago but with no luck . Dr says all is fine but I need to lose weight. I also had irregular periods , really bad .. ( get 1 month , then wouldn't for 4 or 5 months , get 2 months in a row , then not agian for 3 months ) stuff like that but my periods are pretty much regular . I sometimes just wanna give up hope ?
Aww well hope your appointment went well. I finally got my blood work and glucose test results back and found out that I am borderline diabetic so now I am just going to continue to lose weight. Also found out I was never vaccinated for German measles so he wants me to get vaccinated for that cause if I get it while pregnant it can cause birth defects. Hoping at our next appointment I will be put on Clomid or something.
Awww in sorry to hear that Megan :( ... Hope we get blessed with our Lil ones soon :) the best thing we can do is not loose hope...it will bE our turn very soon..
Completely understand my friends, cousins, random people everyday announce that they're pregnant and every time they tell me they ask when I'm going to have my own, well it's for sure not from lack of trying I promise! To top it off, I miscarried last September 3 weeks before I married my husband, I had signs but I was so busy between work and the wedding that I didn't think anything of it...and now I regret it horribly and it still saddens me but it also pushes me on bc I know it's possible it's just a major downer when others are getting pregnant everyday...
@ bluebawler ughh I would hate too...I've been bigger people than me having babies so it's like how can it be my weight...ur weight I fine if u ask me.... I wish I could weight that now lol... Ughh hoping and praying I could get pregnant is on my mind everytime....?
Thank u @samalou I sure will?
I am going for a ultrasound on Wed doctor says she wants to see if everything looks good or not then she will be able to see what I have :(
Ya I hate it when the docs throw it in our face about losing weight. If weight is such a problem then why can my 250+ cousins get pregnant and keep them without problems? Weight is a symptom of something else that needs to be fixed but they only see it as the cause. I would love to lose about 40lbs but with pcos its so freaking hard. Sorry I had to vent.
Omg the first grandchild I bet she is all excited.... Ughh that is my mom too... Sometimes she understands me but sometimes she's just like u need to loose weight too ... Ughh I just pray to god and try to have a lot of faith that I will be able to have kids of my own someday... I am still getting tested to find out if I have PCOS :( ... keep ur head up Hun soon we will get ours...:)
I know how you feel. My brother and sisiter-in-law are pregnant and at first I was angry but now I am happy for them but I hate having to hear all the baby talk when I call home. This is my moms first grandchild so that's all she talks about when she calls me and is constantly sending me pictures of baby clothes. She knows we have been trying and that I have PCOS but all she tells me is lose weight she doesn't really understand how hard it is for me. :(
Awww ? that must be hard.... My sis is overweight too I guess it's just certain people that deal with this hard time....how long have u been trying to get pregnant ??
Oh wow I know that was me too I mean I am happy for them but deap down I'm like oh god when will it be me ? thank u for ur response appreciate it ??
I can totally relate. My husbands brother & sister in law are expecting there second, I wasn't happy for them at first - I even cried for hours, but it will be our turn one day. guess it's just a stupid waiting game. Hang in there girl, you'll be surprise in how many people are in the same boat. & it's always ok to vent xx
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
my sister and her baby father break up when she was pregnant.. and she didn't have sex.. when she had her baby she rip straight to her butt.. am not having sex.. I don't want to rip that bad.. makes me really scared .. 😓😒😔
So upset right now!... When I first found out that I was pregnant, 2 of my sisters also found out that they were pregnant. One of them kept her baby (hers was planned), but, my other sister got an abortion because she said she couldn't protect the baby from her ex when he's a horrible father to their 2 kids they already have... She was due 2 days after me 😔
Then, my best friend of 15 years called me a week ago and tells me she's pregnant (her daughter just turned a year old), then called back ...
So i just had to fall off with my sister for the simple fact me n my baby father got into a disagreement so the first thing he does is run over to my sisters house which i dont understand he always knocking on her door tho out of respect for me my sister should not allow him in her house especially if hes beening disrespectful to me. So its 12:33 am and hes over her house mind u she dates his friend which hes not round at moment.. Shes walking around with her draws out all the time what respect ...
Trust me i am in the same boat both my sisters had babys last month a week apart its their 3rd & 4th i cried my eyes out for hours begging God to give me and dh our little miracle we have been ttc for 8 yrs now it is heart breaking watching everyone around us have a growing family the harass us as to why we don't have babys yet.