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Well...? I just found out my sister is pregnant again...This makes me happy for her but sad for me. ? When will it be my…

Well...?

I just found out my sister is pregnant again...This makes me happy for her but sad for me. ? When will it be my turn? She already has a 8month old baby and now another on the way... My sister in law is about to pop this will be her 3rd ... So that leaves me out...now to deal with the questions : When are u having a baby? Why don't u have one already ? Your behind! Ughhh ? ...sorry venting

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deleted-user

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Trust me i am in the same boat both my sisters had babys last month a week apart its their 3rd & 4th i cried my eyes out for hours begging God to give me and dh our little miracle we have been ttc for 8 yrs now it is heart breaking watching everyone around us have a growing family the harass us as to why we don't have babys yet.

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deleted-user

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Yes I'm regular now .. Don't know how it happened but after many years of being irregular .. It evened out almost a year ago.

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

Oh ok ... Wow that's good cant wait till I loose that much hopefully I do it lol .... I know me too ughh

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deleted-user

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Not really but just lost another pound so now I have lost 17 lbs. :) ugh I hate waiting for results.

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

@chrissyroze ... I'm the same way.... My period are like sooooo off I don't even remember when was my last... :( .....are u regular now ? I know how u feel ... Sometimes I feel depressed and really sad about not being able to get pregnant after like 2 hrs.... But I just try to keep my head up and not loose faith ...

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

@Samalou Thank u I hope it went good too..... Just waiting to hear my results back from my doctor ...patiently waiting :/ .... Oh really ?? Do u have diabetes in ur family? I started eating less and healthy too for the last week ...already lost 3lbs.... I have to keep this up to at least regulate my period ... I hope that that is all I need....:( ....

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deleted-user

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I know how you feel . I tried to conceive a few years ago but with no luck . Dr says all is fine but I need to lose weight. I also had irregular periods , really bad .. ( get 1 month , then wouldn't for 4 or 5 months , get 2 months in a row , then not agian for 3 months ) stuff like that but my periods are pretty much regular . I sometimes just wanna give up hope ?

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deleted-user

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Aww well hope your appointment went well. I finally got my blood work and glucose test results back and found out that I am borderline diabetic so now I am just going to continue to lose weight. Also found out I was never vaccinated for German measles so he wants me to get vaccinated for that cause if I get it while pregnant it can cause birth defects. Hoping at our next appointment I will be put on Clomid or something.

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

Awww in sorry to hear that Megan :( ... Hope we get blessed with our Lil ones soon :) the best thing we can do is not loose hope...it will bE our turn very soon..

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deleted-user

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Completely understand my friends, cousins, random people everyday announce that they're pregnant and every time they tell me they ask when I'm going to have my own, well it's for sure not from lack of trying I promise! To top it off, I miscarried last September 3 weeks before I married my husband, I had signs but I was so busy between work and the wedding that I didn't think anything of it...and now I regret it horribly and it still saddens me but it also pushes me on bc I know it's possible it's just a major downer when others are getting pregnant everyday...

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

Seen***

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

@ bluebawler ughh I would hate too...I've been bigger people than me having babies so it's like how can it be my weight...ur weight I fine if u ask me.... I wish I could weight that now lol... Ughh hoping and praying I could get pregnant is on my mind everytime....?

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

Thank u @samalou I sure will?

I am going for a ultrasound on Wed doctor says she wants to see if everything looks good or not then she will be able to see what I have :(

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deleted-user

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Ya I hate it when the docs throw it in our face about losing weight. If weight is such a problem then why can my 250+ cousins get pregnant and keep them without problems? Weight is a symptom of something else that needs to be fixed but they only see it as the cause. I would love to lose about 40lbs but with pcos its so freaking hard. Sorry I had to vent.

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deleted-user

I totally understand. My brother has 3 kids... 6 cousins who have had a baby in the last year and a coworker.. I've been trying 2+ years .. hope it happens for us soon!!

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Yes pcos sucks! I have it and its near impossible to lose weight but most people don't understand that. What I can't stand is my cousins that are 250+ have babies no problem but I'm 180lbs and can't even have a normal cycle! Its very frustrating so I feel you.

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deleted-user

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yesenia10235 - Oh really if you ever have any questions about PCOS you can always PM me. I am still learning things about it. Thank you and we sure will. :) Just hate the waiting game.

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

Omg the first grandchild I bet she is all excited.... Ughh that is my mom too... Sometimes she understands me but sometimes she's just like u need to loose weight too ... Ughh I just pray to god and try to have a lot of faith that I will be able to have kids of my own someday... I am still getting tested to find out if I have PCOS :( ... keep ur head up Hun soon we will get ours...:)

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I know how you feel. My brother and sisiter-in-law are pregnant and at first I was angry but now I am happy for them but I hate having to hear all the baby talk when I call home. This is my moms first grandchild so that's all she talks about when she calls me and is constantly sending me pictures of baby clothes. She knows we have been trying and that I have PCOS but all she tells me is lose weight she doesn't really understand how hard it is for me. :(

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

Awww ? that must be hard.... My sis is overweight too I guess it's just certain people that deal with this hard time....how long have u been trying to get pregnant ??

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deleted-user

deleted-user

My sister has 4, and all my sis in laws have kids as well. I'm the only one who doesn't but I'm also the only one who is overweight. ?

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

Oh wow I know that was me too I mean I am happy for them but deap down I'm like oh god when will it be me ? thank u for ur response appreciate it ??

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deleted-user

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I can totally relate. My husbands brother & sister in law are expecting there second, I wasn't happy for them at first - I even cried for hours, but it will be our turn one day. guess it's just a stupid waiting game. Hang in there girl, you'll be surprise in how many people are in the same boat. & it's always ok to vent xx

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

Anyone??

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mimiluvzu

Yesenia

Bump

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