So upset right now!... When I first found out that I was pregnant, 2 of my sisters also found out that they were pregnant. One of them kept her baby (hers was planned), but, my other sister got an abortion because she said she couldn't protect the baby from her ex when he's a horrible father to their 2 kids they already have... She was due 2 days after me 😔
Then, my best friend of 15 years called me a week ago and tells me she's pregnant (her daughter just turned a year old), then called back yesterday and said she's getting an abortion because the father doesn't want the baby. She said she can't go through this alone again..... I understand where she's coming from (somewhat), but I told her it's so many families that can't have kids and would raise her baby (told my sister the same thing)....... I just hate when people use abortion as a way out... Abortion is not a form of birth control!!!
@kala_elise, exactly girl preach 👏👏👏👏👏
@leenasunshine24, and a decision on keeping a child should never be based off whether the father wants to be there or not! Kids aren't meant to save relationships or trap people!
I agree there are people who cant have kids babies aren't junk you throw away they are a blessing from god
my friend killed her kid and the baby spoke to her in the dream ask her why did she kill him or her and she @
I'm not judging either god forgives but at the same time that pisses me off its sad @kala_elise
that baby don't deserve that and didn't ask to be here they should not have to get murdered technically that's what that is she could've have gave the baby up for adoption would've been a lot better @kala_elise
@melinda2011131416, that's all I'm sayin! If you know your fertile, use a condom at the very least!
I see why it made you mad, and you're right! It's not a birth control, and I don't see why people use it as such.
@kasieerin, yeah, this is my friend's 2nd one because of carelessness. And I know other girls that have had 5+ from sleeping around without protection. That's the shit that pisses me off!
@kasieerin, I agree it's the mother's right to choose and I agree with what you just said. It's just when women are being irresponsible, knowing that they'll probably end up pregnant (or with an std)... I get upset because I feel like a lot of women use abortion as a form of birth control!..... I had a miscarriage the first time I got pregnant, 12 years ago and it still haunts me...... Then there's women who will just have abortions every single time they get pregnant... I honestly don't care who I offend coz I'm allowed to feel the way I feel and I'm not telling anyone else how to feel. @babes87101116 @kirstenxoxo
and my bestfriend was one who had Alot of unprotected sex with alot of different men... that's where I believe it's rather unacceptable..
I feel if you are old enough to lay down you're old enough to take care of a kid.. my mom and sister both had their babies young.. but I understand other desicions.. I feel women have right over their own bodies I'm just saying I could never bring myself to choose that option.
@babes87101116, doing it as a teenager is different. doing it because you continue to have unprotected sex, that's when I get pissed off! what did you really think would happen? these are grown women! mothers! they know what could happen! @kasieerin @kirstenxoxo
my bestfriend from childhood found out she was pregnant a week after I did and same amount of weeks as me and she got an abortion as well... my sister wishes she could have saved her baby..
There are plenty of babies and children in this world already that need families, a woman does not have to put her body and soul through a pregnancy just for someone else. Again, very personal decision. (I'm also adopted)
my sisters sister InLaw is looking for a baby to adopt because she can't have any my sister tried getting me to give my baby to her...
I had an abortion at 17....I never judge anyone, no matter what their reasons. It's a very personal decision.
This girl on my fb is 8 weeks pregnant with her first child and she said she felt the baby 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️people these days 😂😂😂
omg my sister (best friend) told me she's pregnant with her second child.(: I'm so happy for her . about four weeks ago she was pregnant but had an abortion.... :( but today she wasn't feeling good and notice she missed her period so she took three test came out positive. <3 she started freaking out and crying I told her no don't cry . god has blessed you again with another baby please don't abort the baby & she left my house called me two hours later and she told me she's going to keep the bab...
I got a ? My friend is pregnant she due in August and she was red flaged from her last baby and they told her that she had to go fill a papper out to sighn over her baby does she got to do it cuz they said they going to take the baby at the hospital can they do that
my sister and her baby father break up when she was pregnant.. and she didn't have sex.. when she had her baby she rip straight to her butt.. am not having sex.. I don't want to rip that bad.. makes me really scared .. 😓😒😔
My sister found out she is pregnant and she's decided to have an abortion. That just breaks my heart. 💔
although we don't agree with abortions.. why are adoptions so expensive when they're so many children without parents