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Kala Elise
Kala Elise
Мама четверых детей, беременна

So upset right now!... When I first found out that I was pregnant, 2 of my sisters also found out that they were…

So upset right now!... When I first found out that I was pregnant, 2 of my sisters also found out that they were pregnant. One of them kept her baby (hers was planned), but, my other sister got an abortion because she said she couldn't protect the baby from her ex when he's a horrible father to their 2 kids they already have... She was due 2 days after me 😔

Then, my best friend of 15 years called me a week ago and tells me she's pregnant (her daughter just turned a year old), then called back yesterday and said she's getting an abortion because the father doesn't want the baby. She said she can't go through this alone again..... I understand where she's coming from (somewhat), but I told her it's so many families that can't have kids and would raise her baby (told my sister the same thing)....... I just hate when people use abortion as a way out... Abortion is not a form of birth control!!!

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kasieerin

Kasie Knowles

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although we don't agree with abortions.. why are adoptions so expensive when they're so many children without parents

leenasunshine24

leena le'a

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

@kala_elise, exactly girl preach 👏👏👏👏👏

kala_elise

Kala Elise

Мама четверых детей, беременна

@leenasunshine24, and a decision on keeping a child should never be based off whether the father wants to be there or not! Kids aren't meant to save relationships or trap people!

leenasunshine24

leena le'a

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

I agree there are people who cant have kids babies aren't junk you throw away they are a blessing from god

kala_elise

Kala Elise

Мама четверых детей, беременна

@leenasunshine24, exactly!

leenasunshine24

leena le'a

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

cried

leenasunshine24

leena le'a

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

@kala_elise,

leenasunshine24

leena le'a

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

my friend killed her kid and the baby spoke to her in the dream ask her why did she kill him or her and she @

leenasunshine24

leena le'a

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

I'm not judging either god forgives but at the same time that pisses me off its sad @kala_elise

leenasunshine24

leena le'a

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

that baby don't deserve that and didn't ask to be here they should not have to get murdered technically that's what that is she could've have gave the baby up for adoption would've been a lot better @kala_elise

armyvet_working_mom_of_4

Melinda Parker

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Yes!

kala_elise

Kala Elise

Мама четверых детей, беременна

@melinda2011131416, that's all I'm sayin! If you know your fertile, use a condom at the very least!

armyvet_working_mom_of_4

Melinda Parker

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I see why it made you mad, and you're right! It's not a birth control, and I don't see why people use it as such.

kala_elise

Kala Elise

Мама четверых детей, беременна

@kasieerin, yeah, this is my friend's 2nd one because of carelessness. And I know other girls that have had 5+ from sleeping around without protection. That's the shit that pisses me off!

kala_elise

Kala Elise

Мама четверых детей, беременна

@kasieerin, I agree it's the mother's right to choose and I agree with what you just said. It's just when women are being irresponsible, knowing that they'll probably end up pregnant (or with an std)... I get upset because I feel like a lot of women use abortion as a form of birth control!..... I had a miscarriage the first time I got pregnant, 12 years ago and it still haunts me...... Then there's women who will just have abortions every single time they get pregnant... I honestly don't care who I offend coz I'm allowed to feel the way I feel and I'm not telling anyone else how to feel. @babes87101116 @kirstenxoxo

kasieerin

Kasie Knowles

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and my bestfriend was one who had Alot of unprotected sex with alot of different men... that's where I believe it's rather unacceptable..

kasieerin

Kasie Knowles

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I feel if you are old enough to lay down you're old enough to take care of a kid.. my mom and sister both had their babies young.. but I understand other desicions.. I feel women have right over their own bodies I'm just saying I could never bring myself to choose that option.

kala_elise

Kala Elise

Мама четверых детей, беременна

@babes87101116, doing it as a teenager is different. doing it because you continue to have unprotected sex, that's when I get pissed off! what did you really think would happen? these are grown women! mothers! they know what could happen! @kasieerin @kirstenxoxo

kasieerin

Kasie Knowles

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my bestfriend from childhood found out she was pregnant a week after I did and same amount of weeks as me and she got an abortion as well... my sister wishes she could have saved her baby..

housfullofgrls

Jessie

Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

There are plenty of babies and children in this world already that need families, a woman does not have to put her body and soul through a pregnancy just for someone else. Again, very personal decision. (I'm also adopted)

kirsten2

Kirsten

Мама сына (1 год)

Wow

lovemiithree

tiffany

Мама двоих (6 лет, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

it's not for you to judge

kasieerin

Kasie Knowles

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my sisters sister InLaw is looking for a baby to adopt because she can't have any my sister tried getting me to give my baby to her...

housfullofgrls

Jessie

Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I had an abortion at 17....I never judge anyone, no matter what their reasons. It's a very personal decision.

omg my sister (best friend) told me she's pregnant with her second child.(: I'm so happy for her . about four weeks ago…

omg my sister (best friend) told me she's pregnant with her second child.(: I'm so happy for her . about four weeks ago she was pregnant but had an abortion.... :( but today she wasn't feeling good and notice she missed her period so she took three test came out positive. <3 she started freaking out and crying I told her no don't cry . god has blessed you again with another baby please don't abort the baby & she left my house called me two hours later and she told me she's going to keep the baby and is hoping for a baby boy<3 I'm so glad she's keeping her blessing.