Kala Elise
kala_elise
Kala Elise·Мама четверых детей, беременна

So upset right now!... When I first found out that I was pregnant, 2 of my sisters also found out that they were pregnant. One of them kept her baby (hers was planned), but, my other sister got an abortion because she said she couldn't protect the baby from her ex when he's a horrible father to their 2 kids they already have... She was due 2 days after me 😔

Then, my best friend of 15 years called me a week ago and tells me she's pregnant (her daughter just turned a year old), then called back yesterday and said she's getting an abortion because the father doesn't want the baby. She said she can't go through this alone again..... I understand where she's coming from (somewhat), but I told her it's so many families that can't have kids and would raise her baby (told my sister the same thing)....... I just hate when people use abortion as a way out... Abortion is not a form of birth control!!!

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kasieerin
Kasie Knowles·В ожидании первенца

although we don't agree with abortions.. why are adoptions so expensive when they're so many children without parents

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leenasunshine24
leena le'a·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

@kala_elise, exactly girl preach 👏👏👏👏👏

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kala_elise
Kala Elise·Мама четверых детей, беременна

@leenasunshine24, and a decision on keeping a child should never be based off whether the father wants to be there or not! Kids aren't meant to save relationships or trap people!

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leenasunshine24
leena le'a·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

I agree there are people who cant have kids babies aren't junk you throw away they are a blessing from god

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kala_elise
Kala Elise·Мама четверых детей, беременна

@leenasunshine24, exactly!

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leenasunshine24
leena le'a·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

cried

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leenasunshine24
leena le'a·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

@kala_elise,

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leenasunshine24
leena le'a·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

my friend killed her kid and the baby spoke to her in the dream ask her why did she kill him or her and she @

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leenasunshine24
leena le'a·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

I'm not judging either god forgives but at the same time that pisses me off its sad @kala_elise

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leenasunshine24
leena le'a·Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

that baby don't deserve that and didn't ask to be here they should not have to get murdered technically that's what that is she could've have gave the baby up for adoption would've been a lot better @kala_elise

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armyvet_working_mom_of_4
Melinda Parker·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Yes!

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kala_elise
Kala Elise·Мама четверых детей, беременна

@melinda2011131416, that's all I'm sayin! If you know your fertile, use a condom at the very least!

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armyvet_working_mom_of_4
Melinda Parker·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I see why it made you mad, and you're right! It's not a birth control, and I don't see why people use it as such.

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kala_elise
Kala Elise·Мама четверых детей, беременна

@kasieerin, yeah, this is my friend's 2nd one because of carelessness. And I know other girls that have had 5+ from sleeping around without protection. That's the shit that pisses me off!

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kala_elise
Kala Elise·Мама четверых детей, беременна

@kasieerin, I agree it's the mother's right to choose and I agree with what you just said. It's just when women are being irresponsible, knowing that they'll probably end up pregnant (or with an std)... I get upset because I feel like a lot of women use abortion as a form of birth control!..... I had a miscarriage the first time I got pregnant, 12 years ago and it still haunts me...... Then there's women who will just have abortions every single time they get pregnant... I honestly don't care who I offend coz I'm allowed to feel the way I feel and I'm not telling anyone else how to feel. @babes87101116 @kirstenxoxo

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kasieerin
Kasie Knowles·В ожидании первенца

and my bestfriend was one who had Alot of unprotected sex with alot of different men... that's where I believe it's rather unacceptable..

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kasieerin
Kasie Knowles·В ожидании первенца

I feel if you are old enough to lay down you're old enough to take care of a kid.. my mom and sister both had their babies young.. but I understand other desicions.. I feel women have right over their own bodies I'm just saying I could never bring myself to choose that option.

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kala_elise
Kala Elise·Мама четверых детей, беременна

@babes87101116, doing it as a teenager is different. doing it because you continue to have unprotected sex, that's when I get pissed off! what did you really think would happen? these are grown women! mothers! they know what could happen! @kasieerin @kirstenxoxo

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kasieerin
Kasie Knowles·В ожидании первенца

my bestfriend from childhood found out she was pregnant a week after I did and same amount of weeks as me and she got an abortion as well... my sister wishes she could have saved her baby..

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housfullofgrls
Jessie·Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

There are plenty of babies and children in this world already that need families, a woman does not have to put her body and soul through a pregnancy just for someone else. Again, very personal decision. (I'm also adopted)

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kirsten2
Kirsten·Мама сына (1 год)

Wow

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lovemiithree
tiffany·Мама двоих (6 лет, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

it's not for you to judge

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kasieerin
Kasie Knowles·В ожидании первенца

my sisters sister InLaw is looking for a baby to adopt because she can't have any my sister tried getting me to give my baby to her...

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housfullofgrls
Jessie·Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I had an abortion at 17....I never judge anyone, no matter what their reasons. It's a very personal decision.

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