kirsty
kirsty
kirsty

is anyone like me? :0(

I'm so scared, in my 1st pregency I was severly sick for the whole 9 months-by the time my son was born I was just over 5stone in weight & ended up an emergency c-section.. That was 5 years ago & I am now preg with num2 & am only just over 6 stone as my stomach & body were left badly damaged with the first!! I'm so scared & upset I wanted this baby & did mean to get preg, but now I'm looseing faith in my self to get through the pregency, I know this sounds stupid but I sometimes feel like I won't survive this... & I feel bad for risking my life as I have a little boy who needs me! Like I said I know this sounds over the top & stupid but it's just how I feel....

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kirsty

Hello, I'm so glad ur feelin a bit better, aww.. Ur wee maddie sounds like a little sweet💖.... Ben is doing good he has joined a little football club in his school it's for 1hr every Tuesday afterschool, I'm not really into football & neither is my hubbi hes more extrem sports, so goodness knows were he gets it from!! But he wanted to do it so my mil got him a football kit & he just thinks this is great, I hav to say he does look really cute in it.... Yea I know thankfully the person who was putting on stupid posts has now been blocked!! Prob just some stupid kids,... Lol, aye the old luck of the Irish 🍀 huh... some luck it give me!!!.. Think I need to start lookin somewere else, il maybe try & catch a leprechaun & shake the bloomin life out of it untill it grants my wish for this sickness to go away!!!!! What does maddie like? I hav 10 little neices altogeather & there princess mad!!! 👷

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Hey Kristy,

It must of worked, because even though I was sick today the nausea was turned down a couple of notches which was nice, so I am going to send the thoughts straight back too you💒💒💒💒💒

How are you feeling today and of course how is Ben?

Maddie has been great today and has spent so much time cuddled up to me and rubbing my tummy to make it feel better.

Also I noticed that one of the threads on our convo has been blocked, do I dong know what happened there!

Sending good thoughts your way and wishing you the luck of the Irish, sorry for the bad pun!!! Lol

Cheers

Deb

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kirsty

Aww.. Thank u nickytotty that was a lovely thing to say ☺

Oh no deb... I'm so sorry ur havin a bad day it can be so hard sometimes, just rest urself, wow!!! I'm from northern Ireland I didn't relise u were so far away! But I was starting to wonder... Like u said my day seemed to be ur night lol... Isn't it great the way were able to get in contact through this app & be able to support each other, this constant sickness can really get u down & be a little scary sometimes, keep ur chin up I hope ur feeling better by 2marrow 🍀🍀 I'm thinking of u & sending wishes to get well ✨

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Hey Girls,

Thanks for your replies today! I really needed them....it has been a bad day today, threw up twice before I left home at 7, and have felt nausea all day long!!! Threw up again about 4 and that's when I came home! Now in bed waiting for my princess and hubby to come home!!!!

Somedays I don't know what I would do without the support on here!!!! You are all amazing!!!

Sorry, i am also a bit hormonal today!!! Yippee for me!!!

How are you doing today Kristy? I hope you are starting to feel better! 🍀

Also I have been meaning to ask you where you are located? You seem to always reply when it is my nighttime. 💤

I am located in Melbourne, Australia and it blows my mind that there is someone else in the world in the same situation as me!!!

Well I hope you have a better day and I am sure Ben will be good for you! What a sweetie! 😌

Cheers

Deb

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You girls are amazing! My friend had hyperemesis not nearly as bad as you in all 3 of her pregnancies and she just about coped. As a pp said - take all the help you can, whether it's people offering to sit with your kids, or the doctor prescribing medicine. You are amazing to love your babies so much that you'll go through this again. Don't lose sight of that. Even if you can't eat, drink protein shakes, little and often. Good luck. 😥

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kirsty

My hat is off to u for manageing to keep working.... u should be so proud of urself what a hard thing to do, I'm glad ur getting help & support, lol... Yep I agree I've said it again & again this is deff the last one 😥

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I am still trying to work full time, Which at this point is becoming more and more of a struggle. I am really lucky to have great support around me. My MIL looks after Maddie for me while I'm at work and has been cleaning my house, doing my ironing that kind of stuff. Hubby is good also he has been cooking dinner, I can't stand the smell of raw meat at the moment, but when I get home Maddie is really good! I don't know how I would cope if she was younger or if I had more!!!! This is definitely the last for me, I can't do this again!!!!

Cheers

Deb

PS what was I thinking??? Lol

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kirsty

That's so strange I was honestly just thinking that to myself how the only thing i remember from my 1st pregency is just the constant sickness & how this time I'm also so tired weak & very lightheaded... Hmm... Maybe we just can't remember!! Lol or mentaly blocked it out..... I'm the same either my husband or mil pick ben up from school at 2 then drop him home to me, until my dh gets home ben just plays in my room, he lays on the bed while I read to him & we colour in togeather, tho if I'm feelin really bad he's happy to just lie with me & watch tv, but mostly he would just sit on the floor & play wiv his Lego he luvs it, I spy is a good idea I didn't think of that!! I just take each day as it comes & try to do the best I can, tho as u know it can be very hard, I'm so glad he has school in the mornings, is ur little girl wiv u all day?

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Also just a question, how are you coping with your son and your sickness at the moment? I know Maddie is over watchingmovies in bed with mummy as mummy moans about how sick she feels!!! Lol

I don't know if this will help at all but we spend alot of time in bed reading stories and looking at what we Can see in the pictures as a way to pass the time. This gives me a chance to rest while I know that she is still being entertained. She also colours in, in my bed and plays with her dolls. I hope that maybe this gives you some ideas to help.

Cheers

Deb

Ps Simon says and I spy, using colours not letters also works well! If all else fails download some kids apps on your iPhone and give him that.....🍀

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Yeah not to bad! This morning I was really good, but tonight I am back to the same old!! If I could just have 1 day to feel normal again it would be heaps better, but I guess I am at the peak of it like you!

I remember being sick with my daughter, I just don't remember the fatigue, bloating and nausea, just the vomiting!!

Counting down until we are over it!!!

Deb 😐

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kirsty

I'm 9+1 so there's not a lot between us 😕 I was susposed to be gettin a check up scan today but I'm too sick to travel can hardly even stand up, this past couple of days hav been the worst but I think it's just because I'm at the so called peak of the sickness 8-9 weeks, it's soo annoying even to just see the little ❤ beat would hav been reasureing, awell roll on wk 12 🍀🍀 how are u keepin?

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I agree! It can sometimes be so difficult to know what their thought process is!!! Hoping you feel better today!!!! How far are you now? I am 8+5 and just keep on reminding myself 3 more weeks. (Fingers crossed)

Cheers

Deb

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kirsty

I was sick yesterday to, just feelin very weak today, Aww... The wee pet...my sons the same he must ask me at least 2-3 times a day if I'm better yet his little worried face melts my heart & gives me the strength to fight through it so I can reassure him mummys ok I'm scared of him being negative about the baby, he's already told me to get the doc to take the baby away! I told him that it wasn't the babys fault mummy just had a funny tummy, but this has worried me a bit, u just don't know wots goin on in there little heads, xo

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Hey Kristy

How are you going today? My ms isn't so bad today, but yesterday I vomited all day long and my 4 year old little girl kept on asking if I was okay! She is so sweet!

Hoping it's better for you today!!!

Cheers

Deb 👠

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kirsty

Thank u for ur lovely kind words.. X

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My Cousin was the same way. She took all the help that was offered, ate what she could (Kraft Mac&Cheese from Canada. We sent it over seas to her in England) drank as much water, tea, juice and supplement drinks(when she could stomach them) and rested tons. And the most important thing you can do is keep positive Hun. And don't be afraid to take a helping hand if you have it. For you, your Son and your new Babe.

I've had ms, but not nearly like you explained, so I am truly sorry that you have to go through that. And I'm sending you positive and Healthy wishes!!

Take Care

-Candi

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kirsty

Thank u both for ur kind words the sickness has just been gettin to me and makein me feel low... It's nice to be able to talk to people who truely know wot I'm goin through, thanks x

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I hear you Kristy!

I lost 26kgs in my first pregnancy and have never but this weight back on.

I am now 60kgs and pregnant with my second child and concerned about so many things including my weight! I don't have 26kgs to lose this time and in the past few days ms has come up a few notches so I am not eating.

I know this feeling won't last and soon it will be all over but it doesn't really help in the moment, does it?

I am wishing you all the best and if you ever need to chat just let me know

Cheers

Deb

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Relax. Take a deep breath. You'll be fine. I'm sure the doc/ midwife will keep a good eye on you. Sure, there may be some bumps in the road, but you'll have an amazing family for it. Smile!

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