Absolutely makes me mad
when people say "well he IS the father". Well yes he is but not when you look at the whole picture. I will be damned if I let my baby/kid grow up with an abusive father just because he's the father.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
Man just don't understand, am I the only one having problem with the father of my son?? I just don't see him bring supportive at all :/ & to make matter worst he having brought the baby anything yet, when asked when he would he said the baby not here yet I will when he born!! straight ass hoe smh...
My 80/20 problem... My husband really is a wonderful man! He is a good provider, the best father, a hard worker, he helps me clean and cook when I need him to, he is faithful, and all around a really great guy!
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@sammomma- im going thru the same thing... i want my bd to have nothing to do with my son once he is born unless he gets help, which he wont... we had court today and lied about never being verbally or physcially abusive. i believe just because they helped make the baby doesnt qualify them to be a father. when someone asks me about my bd... i correct them - he used to be my babydaddy until he went off the wagon now he is a sperm donor :-)
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He is the father but you need to go to court And have any privileges revoked if he really is abusive. Otherwise he has equal say in what goes on in your childs life unfortunately.
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No way! Your priority is in taking care of your child and doing what's best for him. If that means keeping him away from an abusive sperm donor, so be it! Good job!
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They should say "well he IS the sperm donor!" a father is something completely different!
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Thank you ladies for the support!! :)
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I agree!! It took my mother 18 years to leave my physically abusive father! Now I hate him and don't want nothing to do with him. You don't want your baby growing up around someone like that. It screws with their brain.
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I agree with you because what if he tries to abuse you in front of you little one ,or even worse, abuse them in the future..he needs help!
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I also agree with you. my mom thought that way spent 15 years with my dad and he was abusive to her and I grew up thinking that was completely normal, that's how all families are. do it for your kids, they may not grow up with their father but the years of torture due to abuse can break a spirit.
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Screw that. I agree with you and I'd be the same way.