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Nicola Flanagan
Nicola Flanagan
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Hospital rant OT Ugh. Just been to the hospital today to get a 'mole' removed. I say a mole, it's a cluster of blood…

Hospital rant OT

Ugh. Just been to the hospital today to get a 'mole' removed. I say a mole, it's a cluster of blood vessels (can't remember the scientific name for it). This is the third dermatologist consultant I've seen. THIRD. The first one diagnosed the bowen's disease on my forehead so I got it removed (by my gp). The second one I saw was a follow-up appointment to check that it's gone and not grown back (When I saw her I asked her to check a 'mole' on my bum, she told me it was a blood-vessel 'thing' and said I could get it removed - cosmetic procedure more than anything because she said there was a chance that it would grow if I didn't remove it). So here I am sitting in the consultants room in my thong (as it's on my cheek). The consultant looks at me and asks me what have I got and what am I doing there. He then proceeded to tell me that he only treats benign lesions and also questioned my bowen's disease by asking who diagnosed it and said it probably wasn't as I wasn't old enough to have it' HOW CAN YOU QUESTION WHETHER I WAS MISDIAGNOSED SINCE THE LESION IS NO LONGER THERE FOR YOU TO LOOK AT!! ALSO STOP ASKING ME QUESTIONS THAT PROVE YOU HAVEN'T READ MY NOTES BECAUSE IT SERIOUSLY MAKES ME QUESTION YOUR COMPETENCE! So not only did I get a wasted journey I've also been made to feel like a time waster! Ugh!

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

So I was debating posting this here, but I feel like I would have quite a bit of support here... So a few months ago I…

So I was debating posting this here, but I feel like I would have quite a bit of support here... So a few months ago I was diagnosed with both lupus and RA.. A couple weeks ago I went to the rhumatolgist and had further blood work.. I went yesterday for the results and on top of the lupus and RA she also diagnosed me with scleroderma and an autoimmune disease called mixed connective tissue disease.. I was okay with all of the diagnosis' until she said that the average life expectancy of the MCTD was only 6-10 years after diagnosis.. I'm not posting this for pity or for anyone to feel sorry for me, but because I feel like I would get more support on this app then I would anywhere else.. I just want to ask you ladies to keep me and my family in your prayers as we're still trying to figure this out and wrap our heads around the news.. this is going to be hard, and it hasn't actually even hit me yet, but I'm just trying to stay strong the best I can! 💔😭

I swear y’all kill me when people ask questions about THEIR child. If my child is 4m or 5m & I put a little cereal in…

I swear y’all kill me when people ask questions about THEIR child. If my child is 4m or 5m & I put a little cereal in the bottle it’s nothing wrong with it at all. NOTHING , especially if his doctor already gave me the go ahead. My god, each one teach their own though. it’s 10 am where I am rn , do not come on my post with , articles about whatever. I’ll tell you kiss my ass today.