Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So I was bleeding like lightly but still bleeding and it stopped but I'm still cramping pretty bad it's been going on for a while my fb wants to go to er to get it checked out but idk should i
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Light pink bleeding.. When I wipe, I should go in right? My ob is closed today only options the er
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
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Wait until appointment if the bleeding stopped
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I have one too! Did the doctor say if it was small, moderate, or large? Small to moderate sized hematomas typically go away on their own. I'm going back weekly for ultrasounds but I have an IVF baby on board.
If it was small to moderate then you should probably just wait until the first. There is not treatment for the hematoma so if you do go in it would just be to find out if it shrunk or grew.
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I never had any vaginal bleeding just internally so I don't know if it stopped or not
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They said that it was 2.5cm but when I went in the baby wasn't even 1cm so I'm not sure how good or bad that size is
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I advise you not to go to the ER unless you have a medical emergancy. I'm an ER nurse and routine care is not what the ER should be used for.
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Is there a walk in clinic you can Maybe go and get checked out?
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The walk in clinic around here won't do an ultrasound unless you're getting an abortion ? and yes emergency rooms aren't for routine care but if I feel like something is wrong with my baby then I'm going to the ER
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I am no expert of course but I think you are safe to wait until the 1st unless you have a lot of bleeding or cramping
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That stinks ? I agree if you feel like you need to get looked at then I would see the er. Nothing wrong with wanting to make sure your baby is healthy
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It's your decision. Not looking to upset you. You asked for advise. That is mine.
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I don't think you need to go to the ER unless you're feeling like you're going to pass out or having SEVER cramping and pain. Unfortunately, this early if there is something wrong with baby they won't do anything but tell you that you're passing baby or whatever the case is. :( Good luck though
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I had one with my first pregnancy. Unless you start bleeding again I wouldn't go back except for your routine appointment. From what I understand they are harmless and very common.
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I had one with my son. He is 6. It was large and I was on bedrest pretty much my whole pregnancy. I bled last week and went to the ER and found out I had another. I'm 8w. Had my follow up today and its gone. They are very common and usually resolve themselves. If you are not bleeding, you should be just fine. Waiting to see your OB is perfectly fine. August really isn't that far away anymore.
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Thank you ladies! Your advice helped a lot I've just been so worried that it might get bigger and I won't know what's going on! But my appointment is close enough. Thank you everyone I can relax now haha
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I have one too. It was pretty big last week and really didn't shrink in size this week. The heartbeat was strong and I'm 7weeks today. OB says I just need to rest and drink lots of fluids. No heavy lifting, sex etc... She said if I ever have any heavy bleeding or cramping to go to the ER. Im only spotting and praying it resolves soon???? Good luck to you.
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Thank you! That's what I've been trying to do I have my appointment in a couple days so hopefully the bleed at least shrunk. I hope everything gets better for you as well!
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Wait till your appointment I haven't had one yet and mine isn't until August 14th.
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Yea I'm waiting for my appointment! It's only a couple days away now