This pregnancy i am always doubting my SO. Idk if its the hormones but he's a self employed mechanic that works all around the state. He goes to peoples houses to fix vehicles. Im always thinking the craziest thoughts! Its a bad feeling but im trying to tell myself he's just working. But he's already encountered crazy girls who think they can strut her stuff around him for free labor. My mind is not right lately but I would just trust him. He's around a lot of people. Just have faith mama!

All is good. I was mainly concerned because I was govong him a ride then he said his friend was bringing him home and they were all drinking. I don't trust that one bit. One night out ...done and over. Just happy he got home safe.

Hope it went well. I say let him go and enjoy the night if you trust him. And if you don't trust him the I would be working on that.

If the roles were reversed he would be called controlling if he didn't want you to go. Just a thought.

Of course here I am trying to wait up for him after the stag party and he just txt me his phone is dead and he's at a bar with the guys. Isn't a stag party enough one night. He's gonna be sorry when hes gotta get up by 830 tomorrow morning.

Girl I understand! Make sure you tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him your not comfortable with the strippers, not happy with how you feel, etc. if he still goes he will think about what you said which will hopefully make him feel bad lol. Unfortunately, this is the kind of thing guys to at Bach. Parties and I find it not fair! What about us? Lol.

From personal experience, telling him I'm not comfortable with him going has helped and my hubby made the decision to stay home instead of me forcing him. Some of my husbands friends have said how controlling some of their wives are which makes them want to go sneak around and lie to their spouse. I refuse the lies so at least he's telling you which is very important in a relationship! Good luck sweetie

Trust your husband trust your marriage. He loves you He wants to be with you. Being pregnant is temporary try to embrace it and enjoy this beautiful time in your life. It goes by so fast. Your making human life your fabulous!

Urg I made the mistake of making my hubby go to strip clubs for his bachelor party years ago. I got so jealous I almost called off the wedding (completely crazy of me) but bc of this my husband does not go to parties that include strippers bc it's just not something I can handle. He respects that which I think is awesome. I trust him completely but it makes me sick thinking about it ha. I have friends that go with their hubby's and enjoy it. So everyone obv feels different about it.

I totally understand how your feeling... my husband it going to the gym regularly and looking better than ever and I'm just steadily gaining. When he goes out without me I've had some crazy jealous moments.. but I'm trying to be honest with him and tell myself these emotions are only temporary and due to hormones....because usually I am not at all a jealous person. But lately I have been feeling a bit crazy. Just know it's only temporary....

I have nothing to worry about with my hubby. I would let him go, if you're comfortable with it and it seems like you are but the only thing holding you back is how you're feeling about yourself. He loves you and probably loves your pregnant body too.

I've been married for almost 3 years. For his bachelor party his friends and brother took him to little darlings ? I didn't have time to be annoyed because they surprised him and by the time I found out and he texted me I was so drunk I don't even remember how I got home that night lol. His brother paid for him to get a private lap dance and the girls were naked ? gross.

But guess what? Did he leave me for that stripper? No. Does he constantly go to the strip club now because he needs more of them and not me? No. In fact, he has never even gone back lol.

If you trust him and you guys have a good, honest, healthy relationship, I wouldn't worry about it.

Its at a fire hall for his good friend. Everyone came to his so I honestly feel like he needs to go just cuz of that. I told him to stay away from them skanks or else lol. I trust him with everything I got its how ive always been so against strippers. No need for it and feel its a slap in the face for the other person. He is gonna go no matter what but he knows my feelings on it. That is touch a super touchy subject for me.

My husband would be dead on the spot the second he even brought up the possibility of going to something like that.

But that has a lot to do with our personal beliefs in addition to hormones.

The thing is, you're his wife. Your feelings about something like that should have a MAJOR say in whether he chooses to go or not. If you're uncomfortable in any way about it, for any reason, he shouldn't be going. He should love and respect you enough to say "Thanks but no thanks. My wife comes first."

But that's just my two cents.

Omg that's how I felt on the beach too ! We had our first proper real argument and I walked off the beach crying like an idiot . ???

I understand where you're coming from. My SO and family/friends are supposed to take his uncle to a strip club for his 60th birthday and usually I'm not bothered by him going for a friends birthday. Hell I'd even go with him if I wasn't pregnant BUT I am pregnant this time and it's just the boys going. I've never ever had a doubt that he would do something he shouldn't but I'm having big time body issues right now because I feel anything but sexy at the moment with my big belly. So it's hard I just try not to think about it and i will be taking one for the time and tiring him out before he goes! ??

I'm with BStock on this one! My husband probably wouldn't be allowed to go ? I'm also super insecure now that I'm pregnant...we went to the beach last month n I felt everyone looked so hot in their bikinis n I just looked fat n undesirable ????? I hate feeling this unattractive ?

Well my dear... I will say you can give yourself a pat on the back for being somewhat ok with it... lol my poor husband probably wouldn't even go, because I would be a pregnant psycho at this point about it. I am against it anyways because I have been good friends with women who work in that industry and know what they did at work, I have gone with him one time because his boss asked us to go after a business party. I handled it semi well, but it took booze and straight up ignoring him for the most part. Always funny how it works out. I am far from a "prude".. but when it comes to MY man... You might lose that hand if you touch him... even if it is just your job lol. I would just talk to him about it. Let him know your insecurities. You guys will come to an understanding or at least he will be aware of how you are feeling, and maybe tread a little more delicately

I feel the same exact way. I hate putting on weight. It's like I understand that I'm pregnant but can't fully accept the weight gain anyways. Especially during summer when everyone is taking their clothes off and showing off their beach bodies and I feel like a walrus. Whenever my guy is out I feel terrible even though I truly know I have nothing to worry about. I think it's something I have to solve within myself but I also understand how hard it is.

Yeah I think everyone gets a bit upset when their partners drink , because men have like almost next to nothing on social filters when it comes to saying stuff when they are sober so imagine drunk !!! ?? it's sad your feeling that way because I know how horrid it is and it feels like he longest night in the world !! Maybe try and make a nice dinner and put on a pretty dress before he goes out ?? ❤

We have and he said please dont worry about anything bc I'm just going for my good friend. I havent been the moat loving wife ( due to no sex drive at all) and dont want his mind to go else where bc of me wanting nothing to do with that stuff. I feel awful and incredibly big and extra emotional. I get nervous when the whole drinking thing goes with his buddies. He sometimes says things.

Oh my god I completely understand . Afff what horrible timing . I'm sure he doesn't think anything of the kind !! I'm sure he adores you !! I feel the same way with my boyfriend and I've got stupidly jealous . But a stag do would be upsetting !! But this is a baby you are growing ! Don't forget that . His little baby❤? have you told him how you are feeling . Baby you guys can chat about it and feel more reassured on how beautiful he finds you?❤

My husband has his bachelor party this weekend. Lol. No one knows we are already married. Our big wedding is June 11th. I know I have nothing to worry about but I want to cut his thing off every time he talks about it or his friends say how excited they are. Pregnancy hormones are no joke. Lol

I know I don't have nothing to worry about w mine either but I have became sooooooooooo jealous w everything and anyone since I have been pregnant lol I get so upset over the stupidest things lol

I would have faith in your husband and just know all is well. It will be hard for you I know the feeling only thing I can say is try to do something to take your mind off it while he is gone.