Hex is flipping out
Over the mommy thing. I told y'all. I told Dh. We were finally past the drama.
Don't do that to that poor child. If he wants to call you mom, let him. You're letting hex have way too much power over your household.
You can tell him not to discuss your household with his mom. In a backwards way, he may do it because he knows it passes his mom off. Kids are smart and it may be how he gets back at her for all the ish she's put him through. I feel awful for the poor kid.
Your right thank you ? I honestly feel much better after posting this ?
Why do you care what upsets her... your DH is right. Her opinion does not matter she is barely around your SS is proud of his family telling him to not talk about you makes it seem like he needs to keep you a secret. I agree let her be crazy she is irrelevant and clearly your SS is voicing that without saying it directly.
I was upset when I wrote this. Obviously I'll let SS call me whatever he wants and I won't take that away from him. I just wish Hex could see I'm not trying to upset her I just want what's best for SS.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Your husband is right. The child's biological mom def is mad because you are who she can't be right now. Fear gets in our way of standing up most times when we really need to. But if that child is willing to call you mom on your own. ..you are doing something absolutely right. Keep up the good work?