im hurt My best friend called me today to tell me she was back in town and she wanted to come see me. Of course I said…

I'm sorry op. ?

I really hope your best friend isn't together with the father anymore.

Wow I am so sorry op. Your friend needs to nip that in the butt super quick. I can't imagine her dd going around saying that.

Omg I'm so sorry :(. That is just horrible

This only goes to show how intelligent kids are. They do what they see. I'm sorry this happened OP. But I wouldn't be mad at the child, I would be pissed at the racist dad. You should talk to your friend and explain to her that you will not tolerate this type of disrespect to your family. I'm sure you have a beautiful family.

Oh god this awful, I'm so sorry you had to hear that.

I'm not mad her dd. She's not with the dad. I did tell her how I felt and that I don't want my dd who is 2 to hear her say anything bad about her. She said she understands and that she talked with the dad and he said so what they are bad people. (The n word) are all bad people. Like who the hell says that and right in front of your 3 year old?!

OP I am so sorry you had to hear that. Her dad is a pig. I'm sorry that 3 yr old has to hear that from her crappie dad. That your beast friend has to deal with a close minded idiot. I'm sure your family is beautiful!

Her father is a disgusting human being. I hope your friend tells him to keep his disgusting mouth shut when their daughter is around. That makes me so angry and I'm sorry that you had to hear such things said about your family.

I told her she needs to tell him that its not ok and she said she did but he won't listen to her. He is a crap dad! He made his dd cry for like 5 hours just to keep her away from her mom. He called the cops on her and said she was "stealing" her own dd. The cops said she had to give dd back to him bc they have split custody and he has her on weekends but this summer my friend moved to another state and came back to see her dd. He said it was ok bc she's leaving tomorrow and then pulls this crap when she said something to him.

Wow this makes me so sad ? so sorry op

This is heartbreaking for so many reasons. I can't understand how parents can teach a child such hate. I could never be with someone who is willing to teach a child such disgusting things.

I've seen your family OP and they are beautiful.

This hurts my heart people on this earth is so cruel and evil. It saddens me things like this happens everyday.

DD and I were at the park yesterday and she enjoyed playing with all the children that were of different races and they loved her. Two kids fell in love with DD's afro puffs and kept calling her cutie pie lol she soaked all that attention up ?. I just wish there were more kind people like this

Edit: I know its hurtful but just remember your family is beautiful and wonderful.

Ugh this breaks my heart?

That girls father is such a piece of crap.

Your family is beautiful op?

I'm sorry, ugh that must hurt so bad ?

??? that breaks my heart to know she's being taught that by her dad and to direct it towards your family also I'm sorry to hear she said this and about your family ??

It does hurt really bad. It was learned just over summer bc before my friend left they came over everyday and her dd would run up to my dh and give him a hug and she loved playing with my child. She loved to hold the baby and make her smile. My dd loves everyone. She got so excited when other kids are around. I know some kids have no filter they don't realize what can hurt someone and I don't want her dd to say something bad to my dd bc of her skin color. This is why racism exists bc parents don't teach thier kids to love people for who they are not by what they look like. My heart physically hurts right now for my kids. Its something I never want them to go through. I know they may endure it in thier lifetime but they're only 2 and 3 and half months.

I'm so sorry op that's so hard to deal with. Her father is a real pos for teaching her that. Your family is beautiful don't let anyone ever tell you other wise ?

Fb video call plus the profile picture pops up. Its my husband, the kids and I.

Brutal!! People can be so cruel but there's not much you can do about it so don't let it upset you. All you can do is teach your children to love everyone no matter what they look like.

This is when I'd be hauling my ass back to court, to get supervised visits. No child should have to hear such ugly nonsense. Oh and I'd be tearing her father a new a****** .

That's so sad. I'm sure your friend is pretty upset as well. Sucks that the dad is such a douchebag that he would destroy his daughters innocence.

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Oh yes my friend is really upset by all this. She said she doesn't know why he would say stuff like that in front of her. Its disgusting really how he is. She is taking him back to court so she can take her daughter with her. I dk why she left her here in the first place but I think its bc he has every weekend with her. She left bc her job gave her a better position where she went. Now she is working on being able to get her out there too. She offered half the year with him and the other with her and he said no. He said give me primary custody and I'll let you see her 41 days out of the year. She's not going for that.

It sounds like she needs a new lawyer and a backbone.